I find the excitment of my wife and I interacting with a provider very attractive.  Although my wife is not bi-- she is finding the proposition more and more exciting..  I'm wondering, however, if there are any pitfalls or traps I need to avoid in order to make the experience the best it can be. Do any providers have suggestions that could help make our adventure a success?  Have any providers been involved in any threesomes that went terribly 'bad'??  Any feedback would be most welcome!

I have had the pleasure of doing a threesome with 2 of phoenix's best ladies with my wife.  Let me tell you that it is all about your wife. Your wife/girlfriend cannot be half-hearted about it. Jealousy is not an option and many providers don't do threeways because of this.  Make your wife and the provider comfortable and it is a great experience.  Honesty is always best, so be honest with each other before you try this, or it could be a bad experience for both of you and your provider.  Thank you TP and SS you are both great!  T&J.

But also, keep in mind that you should go into it with NO expectations. If you do, no matter what happens- you'll be pleased

I see couples on a regular basis and usually it is the wife that is bi-curious and I put all focus on her, however I always ask how they want to do it before hand so there will be no misunderstandings etc. Usually the gentleman takes the initiative if he wants anything from me personally because I don't want any jealousy from anyone. However if this should work then the provider and the wife needs to connect and that is why I always do a minimum of 90 min session with a couple so we can get acquainted initially and a glass of wine or similar will help to get us all relaxed. I also usually see the couples more than once and with each time the wife gets more and more comfortable with me and don't see me as a threat and we end up having a great time all of us.

Just my .02 cents

Puss och Kram,
Swedish Anna

You along with Me, Myself and I?

That is an excellent idea sweetie. I will take care of you all three

Many kisses honey...all over!!
Swedish Anna

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