Taken from a report by Amber in Chicago for the Poon Valley Press....posted on Chicago Board...

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http://freewebs.com/iftheyonlyknew/

"I’ve been a GFE Provider for some time now."

Kinda makes you wonder what this provider's definition of "GFE" is.

I've learned to do and not do what she's mentioned, but most of my learning has come from women who have spoken up and taught me the do's and don't s. Amber writes clearly. Too bad she lacks the ability to speak up and teach her clients. My guess is she's afraid and uncomfortable speaking up. Too bad because the result is she's unhappy, and eventually it will catch up with her when her clients sense she's unhappy, but don't know why.

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It seems that she should look elsewhere for her income. Life happens, deal with it. Be safe and be Happy
GFE= Great, another Fucking Ego (might be what she's thinking as her customers come through the door). Now that's funny, I don't care who you are -lol-
Happy Halloween board

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She merely posted the link.  Someone else wrote it.

This girl would love me then because I couldn't care less if she came or not!!!

ok..just kidding.  Seems like every job has its ups and downs and complaints about the customers.

Posted by fuzzy in Boston

http://www.craigslist.org/about/best/den/415707529.html

It sounds as if whomever wrote that needs to (1) become an independent (2) not work all day in a hotel room and (3) consider some other profession.

....do you agree with what she said?

After reading it, I can say I see her point on several issues.

But, how can a true GFE provider see 6 guys in a day? I know I'm the customer, but I had no idea there were potentially that many customers before me.

(Note to self - next time, make sure I'm the first appointment of the day....)

I found that page to be very funny since there is some truth to what she is saying and unfortunately when you see several clients per day you do start to feel like a robot/machine and look at men in a different way. This is why I choose to charge more and see select few so that I can ALWAYS give 100% gfe instead of just a F/S (full service) which it appears that is what she is doing.  Hope this helps heal some of those broken hearts.

Yes I agree with what she said and I think any honest provider will aswell.
A true GFE does not see 6 guys a day unless they are on tour which then the numbers keep going up. I have seen as many as 10 guys in one day in the past (years ago in my youthful days) but only when I was doing a tour.  Either way in order to be able to provide a true GFE and really enjoy the experience, 1 a day is plenty for me, nobody wants sloppy seconds, right?

I don't think this is a fair assessment of what all providers are thinking. I believe some of us actually enjoy what we do and perhaps she has just been doing this too long or too much. I appreciate it when a client tries to please me, and I also enjoy getting to know a person, so "cuddling" offers the opportunity for that, and I don't mind when a client stays the full hour, isn't that what he pays for? This came across a little harsh so guys don't think this what we're all thinking....

You are one of the few ladies I have seen who I truly believe actually enjoys what they do..In fact I really get off in making sure the lady has more orgasms than me..

Guys if you are looking for a lady who makes you feel like a million dollars than definetly call Leigh Lennox..


JayG

Is that I be the first appt. of the day..Some ladies get offended when I ask but this is the reason why..

Ladies are human and I am in sales and I know my first appt. is a lot better than my 3rd or 4th appt..


J

Interesting read,  I always wondered how these ladies who tour feel by the end of a day of having 12 clients in a day.  And having 3 days in a row.  And knowing how us men are really slobs, and aren't as good in bed as we think.  I always wonder why agencies send these ladies out.  I know they are only looking to fill there pockets with money.  I guess $$$$$ is the thing that motivates a escort to travel and take on that many clients in a day.  I got a different prespective in the day and the life of a traveling escort.  That is also why I am the 1st of the day or not at all.

Well, I was considering a date with an attractive provider this weekend, but after reading this, it might be some time before I hobby again.

But I think agency touring girls book them in a lot closer on tour than an indy.

When I tour, I do 2 MAX a day. Usually one in the morning and one in the evening. Sometimes I have only 1. But, I am not burnt out, and my vacation still pays for itself.

It's all in how you look at it. But high Vol, I am not which certainly prevents me from feeling like the lady who wrote this thing.

It was an interesting read.  I can see her point about how some guys treat women.  That happens in both this world and in the vanilla world.  I always try hard to make it an enjoyable event for both of us and I think that it starts with respect.

But really got me was her mention of the use of her towels!  Give me a break! I've done more than my fair share of staying in hotels and never had any problem getting extra towels. If she can't figure out how to get a couple of extra towels from the cleaning ladies you shouldn't be staying in a hotel!

I understand the comment from one hobbiest that the posts are a turn off to hobby.  I would hope that not all providers feel this way.  I'm sure there is some truth there, but the attitude is ugly at best.  Interesting closing by the first one - so it seems if you are a good looking married guy you are ok???

My 2 cents on definition of GFE.  I've always, and think most thoughtful men, care about what their partner experiences.  I find it a turn to bring and see my partner orgasm.  Sometimes I succeed, often I do not.  The clear implication from the post is that we shouldn't try.  Do all providers think that?

I am not high volume and can focus on the gentleman at hand (pardon the pun). I prefer one person for the entire day, and I can get away with this since I have other work to occupy my time.

I think I would get too burned out if I were doing this a lot. However, I give a lot of credit to ladies who can and still enjoy it. Touring is the only time I've seen more than one or two in a day, but even touring I would prefer only two in a day and then vacation the rest of the time. If I'm in a new city I want to take in the sites and museums, etc.

Hugs,
Ciara

I see both the humour and the truth in what she is saying. I still feel that for her own well-being she should change her role in this profession to one more like yours.