Phoenix
Re: Stood up
You're welcome, Vanessa. Does this mean that I can use you as a reference next time I'm asked for one? 
Seems to happening more and more.
How unprofessional.
Too bad that TER doesn't allow reviews about no shows.
I called Vanessa listed on Back Page and we arranged a time to meet with two hours notice. She requested I call half hour before the appointed time to confirm. I called twice but she would not answwer the phone. Another unreliable, I guess.
Here's a link to her ad:
http://phoenix.backpage.com/FemaleEscorts/one_day_special_only_hurry_before_it_s_too_late_/classifieds/ViewAd?oid=4717740
Seems to happening more and more.
How unprofessional.
Too bad that TER doesn't allow reviews about no shows.
sweetie, don't jump to conclusions. Most hobbiests don't realize that we don't all sit in a hotel 24/7, waiting for the next stud to bang us. We have lives and families like everyone else. She may have had an emergency, her phone could have gotten broken. I dropped my in a toilet once when reaching for something, it was on a Sunday and I couldn't replace it until the next morning. If she's on here, just review her. But don't assume that she's just flakey. Shit happens
welcome to my personal DNC list vanessa.....
Thank you, Moebius. I waited for two days before posting but did not hear back from her. A call back to explain what happened would be in order, I feel. Yes, things do happen, but an explanation helps.
its pretty obvious she double booked, since any time something has actually come up ive gotten a phone call. oddly i hardly ever get one when im standing down in the parking lot feeling like an idiot and looking lost as it rings to voice mail.
the real tip off here is the call to confirm 30 minutes prior, she was waiting to see if the one she booked before would actually show up. When he did she didnt need your business anymore that day.
ive been double booked more this last three months or so then in any period i can remember previously.
the only way to fix poor behavior in the hobby is to make it financially detrimental to practice it.
Another one to be taken off the to do list. The courteous thing for her to do would have been a call back and say she was sorry and would make it up to you. This just shows she doesn’t give a shit about your time.
You're more than welcome, 85003. And thank you for the tip you gave me on a no show on the other board. I always call if I'm going to be late or (heaven forbid) if something happens that I cannot make it. I would appreciate the same but as this shows, it doesn't always happen.
McGee,
I just wanted you to know that I truly feel bad about this and I would like to make it up to you!
I am not saying this for any reason other than the type of person I really am. If you could get in touch with me and we can set up a time to meet for coffee my treat if you like coffee and I want to give you some gas money!
My father use to tell me two wrongs don't make a right and I want to make this right, because it truly upsets me if I had went with my gut that you were a good guy like I had felt instead of getting all worried this would of never happened, but it did and I just want to correct it so that I can sleep well at night and not have this on my mind!
Sincerely,
Vanessa
Vanessa, I really appreciate your offer and although I don't need the money for gas you offered I would accept you buying me a cup of coffee so that we could talk. I will be calling you in the next few days so we can schedule it. In the meantime, please don't lose anymore sleep over it, ok? I really appreciate the fact that you're trying to correct the situation and make it right, it does show that you're a good person like I thought after talking on the phone with you. thanks
I just wanted people to know that I asked for a provider reference and whomever this is did not want to provide me with that.
However I always ask the gentleman to call at least a half hour in advance to let me know whether they are serious about an appointment.
I did not schedule an appointment or confirm that appointment because there was no provider reference. Sorry, but I have to protect myself and my safety comes first as I have a child at home and I am the sole provider for her. I did not mean to upset anyone. So you do have my deepest apology for that!
Your ad does not say that you will not see anyone without references. Perhaps it should say that so a person will be prepared. I can provide references. If that was the problem, you should have told me you would not see me instead of making an appointment and blowing me off without calling back. Maybe we can start over then?
We all have the same issues the only thing we ask is for a call or text saying you can’t go thought with date so we don’t sit around wasting our time.
That goes for the guys also if they make a date and know there’re not going to show up have the courtesy the let the lady know. Nobody likes waiting and then no one knocks on the door.
It’s not very respectful of the person waiting for you.
Thank you Vanessa for replying it does show you have class.
So maybe now you and McGee could make amends after all he did want to see you and I don’t think anything has changed to make him not want to meet you.
So you two go on and play nice and have fun.
For those of you following this thread, you know that Vanessa wanted to make things right and offered to buy me a cup of coffee and even to pay me some gas money. I didn't see any reason for her to pay my gas money although I appreciated that gesture. I did, however, accept the offer for a cup of coffee. We sat and talked about a variety of subjects and decided we would like to have a session. I plan to see her again and Guys, you would be doing yourselves a favor if you did as well. It would help things go smoother if you were prepared in advance to provide references which I was not at the time. Thank you for all the support everyone showed in helping to bring this situation to a resolution and thank you, Vanessa.
Thanks McGee for helping me to correct the situation and for everyone else who helped us to work things out. I had a really nice time with McGee and he is a really sweet guy. I hope to see you again, but in the mean time take care and thank you McGee!
Glad you two had a good time.
So Vanessa is it Okay if you put you back on my to do list?
You're welcome, Vanessa. Does this mean that I can use you as a reference next time I'm asked for one?
So sorry to hear this happened to you...=(
Happy hunting
Kyla
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