Ms. Jolie,
There are many factors that happen with the thought of being with a porn star. Others may have differing opinions, or may place these in different order, but here are some thoughts just from my perspective:
1. Duh! You are a porn star! You are easily researchable, and thus as a potential client will have some sort of intimidation with scheduling you. I know that when I reached out to a porn star in Phoenix, I had many E-mails to her prior to us meeting, stating that I was in fact a bit intimidated. It is natural. She was very complementary in her responses, and basically told me I had nothing to worry about. Turned out, she was right.
2. Cock envy. As a guy, you understand that you can't make butter with a toothpick, and as a porn star, you have probably seen all different models of cock. This in it of itself is very intimidating. Part of my fun is to make sure that my partner is pleased, and thankfully, I don't believe that has happened a lot.
3. You are a porn star! I know that this is all fantasy, and although I love the wildness, acting that does happen during encounters, I would not want anything to be over acted. Not saying this applies directly to you, but that does cross the cranium, and with a porn star, it is an even greater concern.
Bottom line is this is mostly in our (male) heads, although if my first experience with the Phoenix provider did not go well, I probably would just cross this bucket item off my list for good. Overall, it depends on the person, and for me, it is just about re-affirming confidence in myself. I can only do what I can, with what I have.
Hope this helps.
bjjb.