Men, do ads with the dirty talk in the headlines get you stimulated? Do you find it sexy or a turn on to be prompted to be "dirty" or do "naughty" things?

I also wonder what your ultimate desire is... It is my opinion, and based on Deida and other leaders in the sex-ed fields, that all people want to connect, authentically. That putting your lingum (cock) in a hole is fine, but being actually seen and appreciated and deeply connected is the ultimate goal. Is this correct?

Peace, Bhakti

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and surprised no one  has commented  on yout thread ....guys if you want more ladies to post here you have to show them some interest or they will retreat......these ladies are trying  to reach out  and if you only respond to a select few  they will go aways so........what do want?

Thank you Victoria for the support! Yup, I was trying to stir it up and... Most don't know me here. I really do wonder what type of advertisement is attractive to a man, and since I am not one, I'd ask.

Okay, what do you think of the off color tag lines when it seems the headline is appealing to the lowest common denominator. As  woman I'm turned off, however, if a man were advertising and wrote something intelligent I'd be all over it. Do men want to be referred to as "honorable"?

Here are few examples, "Chocolate, tall ,thin and ready to sin..."
or, "______ Wants To Play!! Will You Play With Me?"
or, "Hooters.~~~ Hot To Trot ~~~ Put A Wiggle In Your Walk"

On second thought this could just be weak ad-copy. Thoughts?

This is one of my headlines, "Sacred Sexuality - Art of Eros and Tantra" and another for D/s is,
"Master Your Fear or... "

well to answer your question  about  tag lines on starting  a thread ....my experience is  the ones that  lok like thaty might me alittle more tantalizing seem to get noticed more and also  the poster involved it takes time  hang  in there please .....I went to your site   and you offer  a n interesting service  ot just escorting that will appeal to the more spiritiul  and inteligent men I loved your  quote  " True Happiness arises in the first place from enjoyment  of ones  self"  the same  could  be said about who you are and what you are offering  good luck !

Personally I can do without the dirty talk.  It comes across as fake and  also I've never cared for vulgar women.  I much prefer a classy ad and a classy woman.  

I think as people we all desire to be appreciated.  But hiring an escort and then hoping for a deep connection is a bit absurd.  I also doubt that the escort herself would be pleased to learn she has become a deep connection.  She'd probably be thinking:  lunatic stalker!  

I'd also say men hire escorts for a variety of reasons.   Everything from lonliness, to boredom to the simple primal need to have sex with someone.  Let's face it, many of the men who hire escorts are married and the last thing they need or want is any type of connection with the escort once the service has been completed.  

So, i'd say the reasons are are many and vary.

I tend to go with the flow  if they want it I can bring it but  would much rather  keep it real   am more of a sweet talker  "oh  baby that  feels soooo goood......."

I really would like to know what the woman enjoys before I say anything. Some are more the "sweet talkers" while others like it dirty. I know what I want to say, but being too vulgar can be a put off to some. I know the provider is there for me, not the other way around, but a happy provider equals a happy client.

Haroldbaz, great points! I had not thought of your view. I know that from hiring a handyman to a doctor I want the most authentic connection possible. My life is built on sincerity and authenticity, so I would never even consider NOT having a deep connection with clients in any world.

I'm also a photographer, and my photography is about the same intense authentic moment. I moved into erotic photography for that very reason. The deeper I can go into a moment, the more profound and intense it is, the more I enjoy it. D. Deida teaches sexual yoga, or a deep practice in all areas of the feminine / masculine energies, including and committed to, sex. My deep practice is how sincerely can I open my heart to each moment, each person.

I have had people fall deeply in love with me in a short amount of time. I hold that as a sacred connection. I have never violated that space by behaving like I am a girlfriend (making demands or calling w/out a prompt first), however, I can see how that might be considered if one does not have clear boundaries. Feeling connected, the "love" energy is powerful and life fulfilling, not to mention satisfying on many levels.

I have always respected my sisters in practice, now I have a greater understanding for my sisters who practice differently than I do. Thank you for that!

Peace, Bhakti

"Love is always bestowed as a gift – freely, willingly and without expectation. We don’t love to be loved; we love to love."
Leo Buscaglia

Trusting the authentic moment if for me the best guide. In Tantra we call it Latihan, or going into the mystery. Knowing that moment has never existed and will not exist again, for either person. I don't cookie cutter anyone, and the connection, for the moment, few hours or years is vitally important to my practice.

No matter what I do I want to be seen as the individual I am, feel the moment, and know that moment is valuable. I don't want to be seen as one of many, why would anyone want that?

So, there are days the moment is so intense all I want is to hear all the "shadow" thoughts you have and have never allowed yourself to say... Which is powerful and can heighten the moment. If you are not being sincere, however, you won't feel the deep intensity of the moment, but be preforming according to your past. If you are in the moment, present tense, seeing me, feeling and experiencing the sacred feminine, then you will respond naturally and organically and trust your deeper, sexual truth. You might want to speak your dirty little secrets or tell me how you feel or anything else that has not had a place to come out.

Speaking your truth in the moment is much more powerful than guessing what your partner wants. Ecstasy happens because the truth of two people come together for a moment or for hours, and their truth is not quantified to a relationship status, but to the deeper sincerity.

Oh, my little 2-cents.

Peace, Bhakti

I think you can tell by reviews or by asking her what she enjoys  some of us are somwhere in the middle  I know I hate when someone uses the C*** word it just grates on my nerves, there are so many other words to use  .....

Ah... And I love the "C" word! As a writer I love all words. I have no judgment of any word or its impact and actually delight when I run across a word someone has a "charge" over.

I was with a woman once and she had the same feeling about the "C" word. I was stunned at first, because no word can have that much power over me, however, I understand her "story" she tells herself about the word. I was delighted to know more about who she is and how she sees the world because of that one word.

AzVictoria, I'm enjoying your posts... I have not utilized this site so far, and am glad I ran across it when you are here. Thanks.

Peace, Bhakti

P.S Thank you for checking out my site. I have looked at yours... You are gorgeous! I'd love to photograph you when you are ready for new images.

That is an example of what I mean. With all respect to Princess--and thanks for long, lovely response--I am in a mini-relationship with a provider for the short time we are together, and what is "in the moment"for me might be not what she wants. It is important to balance my urges with respect for the other. But if she likes me to say it, I'll do it.

....wanna fuck?!  D)

I'd prefer not to see dirty talk in the headlines of an ad but rather suggestive innuendo that gets my attention. Behind closed doors, I love dirty talk. Say you love my cock, not penis. You have a pussy, not a vagina and definitely not a cunt. I prefer to say boobs or breasts, not titties. I wanna kiss your butt, bottom or rear end but not your ass. If I describe your backside to others I might call it an ass but not when I'm intimate with it. We're going to fuck, not have intercourse. Lead me to believe I rocked your world, even if I didn't. Tell me you can't wait to see me again....who wouldn't?! If we really connect, we'll both know it, but I came for a fantasy and I'll call you again if I believe we both had a good time.


'Relax....it's just sex!'