for myself it works everytime......  to ensure a good date from the start..... and that is when  the client lets you know  right away that he is happy  with his choice it might be a compliment on how nice you look  something as simple as that  puts you right at ease maybe its a woman thing  but as soon as I know he is happy  I can relax and be myself .....I try and do the same for the guy  when he shows ups  find something positive to break the ice ....what are some of the things  that a provider or a hobbiest  has said to you that made you feel happy to be there? I once opened the door to an extremely handsome  man and said " so how much is this going to cost me?  " He laughed  but it  was just my way of telling him  how lucky I felt that  he picked me......

I always find something to compliment the lady on in the first 2 minutes of showing up. I will always thank them for making the drive out to see me also. Now the nicest thing a lady has done was the day following our date she sent me a very nice email thanking me for a lovely evening. She quickly became my ATF.

I always try to find something nice to say to the lady (also in my "real" life). Like Victoria says, it puts everyone at ease. And who doesn't like an, honest, compilment once in a while. I also text or email the lady right after thanking them & tell then what a wonderful time I had.

Vampsexy

p.s.  I'm wondering how much I should charge now......lol.

With out ever meeting you, I have at least 3 compliments.  I love your smile.  You write great posts.  Your house is sparkling clean.

LOL Sam your too funny! It's great seeing you come  out and play , see it wasn't that hard to get  you going!

I thought you might like to meet my pussy...



...cat that is.

Ok, is it just me or is THAT cat evil looking? And she keeps staring at me....

Vamptoria

p.s. The other lady in the picture is very lovely & can stare at me all she wants.

EVIL no vamp that is a very sweet pussy! Look at that face  again .......

I am speechless!

My speech is back today.  This is a marvelous picture of you and your color coordinated kitty.  It should be on your web site.  What is your kitty's name?  Too answer your question, I would very much like that.

Ginger  is her name and  she adopted me 3yrs ago  just came in through the doggy door and worked her way into my heart and before that i was just a dog lover  but now she is the queen  and has her own brand new  kitty condo  and anything  she desires LOL