This week confirms the reason Carlee,and I have stopped attending The Meet And Greets.I used to look forward to the parties, and meeting the ladies ,and gents to.
Sadly their are those who proceed to name call,bash,and tear down others after such events take place.
Their are so many ladies I would like to meet but then I step back and reconsider.Why cant we get back to being respectful,and accept one another without any ridicule?
  What has changed over the past year? Will I ever get to attend another Meet and Greet,and feel the love of a communtiy without the worry of being judged?

-- Modified on 9/5/2007 11:23:18 PM

Hey JK
I now understand what you said in the T.E.R chat the other night,you were right to much drama. I thought I missed something, I'm glad I didn't go

A few months ago someone had started a thread about the lack of discussion on the Phoenix board. I had realized at that time that I had stepped back from posting and decided with great caution to start posting on the boards.

I had stopped posting due to the mean and cruel things that were said about others on the Phoenix board. Instead of it being a place that is fun, uplifting, and friendly it has become a place were others are torn down. I do not have time for drama and insecure people who put forth too much energy on such things. I do hope that this week can be a learning experience which will bring the community back to the environment it once was. I miss it!!

~ Carlee

..just tell me where and when.  Way too much bandwidth wasted on evil and animosity lately.  Future meet and greets should include a pledge of smiles and hugs only... ok ok  a pinch on the cheek is acceptible behaviour.  I know I'd like to discuss with the foxy one the merits of how her fav NASCAR driver handles life in the fast lane.  

Remember, everything posted on TER is fictional, fantasy land, and six inches fits in thimble.  So let's all have a group hug, kick back, make a date with the lady of your choice and say something nice about her.  Evil sucks!!   (oooooooh yea, I've met some very nice "evil" ladies!! *wink*)

Have a great day in the Valley!

I've enjoyed the 2 or 3 Toys for Tots events I've attended. It's also fun have a reason to go shopping for toys.

I agree with you Jordan

I have worked in the valley for many years and will not go to meet and greets because of the BS.

I have even had clients that have been bashed on the boards and thet no longer post here, which is sad.

I remember the good old days, when providers looked after each other, which should be that way.

I have always given references to ladies, but have recieved very few back.

I miss the days when Little Debbie, Chrissy Stone, ect.... were on the boards, as they were always willing to help you out.

Not, sure if it will ever be like that again. I hate the Drama here and this is why I rarely post.

If, you ever need a reference, you can always count on me.

IMO a good provider, is an angel on your back

Kelly

Re: I agree with you Jordan

Hey Kelly Rose here they really were the good old day and yes we all did watch either's backs and helped each other when we needed a hand glad to see you posting Kelly miss you call

Rose edensrose  602 350 0166

Were ya been?  Enough drama ...how about some on the board flirting?  Hey bring your lady friends  too

I remember about five years ago Phoenix was a different place. I did attend one party quite a ways back, but I was promised it was a private party and that only four ladies would be there. Guess what? The whole flippin' community showed up and I felt betrayed because I wanted to keep a low profile with my face, etc. The one good thing that came out of it was I got to meet Rose -- a lovely, respectable lady who knows the business.

First, let me say that I am more like a guy. I friggin' hate gossip queens or women that are so insecure with themselves that they feel the need to make up crap to make themselves feel better and others look bad. Some should take their own advice and seek help or yoga (but take the spirituality part seriously).

I've heard so much gossip when I have had to call for a reference because there was not enough time to email, and all the provider could do was gossip about someone I am not acquainted with or have even casually met. And . . . what's funny is some of these ladies do not know me. How pathetic is that?

I am not trying to sound mean, ladies, but I just want to get my reference, say "hello" and move on. I think some people need to "get a life"!  That's all.

Okay, I'll go back to being nice now. Geesh! Menopause.

Hugs,
Ciara



-- Modified on 9/6/2007 11:04:16 AM

It's too bad....a few tooooo many clicks on both sides.
That's the way all the parties have been, everyone in there own circle of friends....I think I talked to about 5 providers and 4 men (all of which I knew) I know for me it's a comfort factor.

I remember the very first party I  went to  AZ Candy and you Jordan took me under your wings, made me feel like I was accepted. Jordan I miss going to dinner every now and then, girly

Then the 2nd one I went to the Rose came up to me introduced herself, gave me a big hug.....then we talked the night away....and no gossip all good stuff! How wonderful to feel like you belong!!!!!! I will never forget how you ladies were so kind! And still are!  We still have yet to make lunch or brunch


Thanks Kelly I love your quote "A good provider, is an angel on your back"!....in more ways than one
I too know a few gents that won't post...I think a couple of them know us both!

Ciara we haven't met yet, not sure why I wasn't at the party your referring to as I was around but I know the few times we have talked you have been nothing but respectful and kind.
I to have not the time to gab on the phone,

I only speak to a few ladies like Ana who has been nothing but nice to me...making me banners and helping with computer stuff...she was never asked she did it just because!

Misty who has been a total angel helping me out when I had no in call being there for me in my time of need after my mom's death....

These ladies are very special they ask for nothing in return. It's all about "just because"

Some of you ladies even refer when they have other commitments  as I have done many times and we all have given references to each other without any hoopla!

Heather  ..wink we will have that drink...I missed you the other night and we were there at the same time....how did me miss?

And Hooray for all the sweet gents that give kudos "just because" I would have thought they were setting an example!

I love ya all, no matter how you feel about me!!!

Hugs to ya all

Hugs & Kisses
Terri

you have impeccable taste dah - ling.

how could anyone not love you. i'm honored to be of assistance to such a sweet girl and i know that you do a lot behind the scenes to help others when you can.

Thanks Terri for you sweet and kind words.  You know I will help any way I can...just let me know.
It was great seeing you at the M & G... you looked marvelous

-- Modified on 9/6/2007 3:48:22 PM

I agree my queen! We need to get together soon I miss you MY FRIEND!

How about having a small gathering with like minded folks?

I'll be back to PHX in February, (lots of time to plan) and would love to meet you all....

Jordan will give me the thumbs up!  

And you could invite those folks who would play nice....

RocketMan36

Let's see..February - Super Bowl, Valentine's Day, what else...hmmm  Perhaps a little party where he shows us his "rocketman".  Sounds good to me.  How about it ladies?

Misty

-- Modified on 9/7/2007 1:45:04 PM

I'm planning to be there 5 nights, middle of FEB, schedule flexible.

And would love to see Ciara's bartending skills....

RocketMan36

Rocketman is my atf but I can share him!! He will be crawling back to his plane when we are done with him!

I hope that you would come to my M&G's. You are always welcome there.

TMAN