I need some help with a situation that I'm sure someone here might be wonderful at. The wife needs a wake up call, needs to feel the possibility of another woman possibly invading her turf. would anyone be interested in helping me work a few scenarios? I have some ideas, but would love to talk to whoever about some more. Any takers?

That since you posted under an alias (I can understand that) and since you are asking for some volunteers....

That you create a throw-away email address and give the ladies an oppurtunity to contact you that way? Some may not feel like posting a reply here..... for it is doing something a little personal and if they post under an alias...... what good does that do you?

Let me get this straight, you're a married hobbyist and you want a provider to act like she's hot for you to give the wife awake up call.Does she know you see providers on the side?? If not it's not her that needs the wake up call.

Well aren't you Mr. Holier than thou?

No but I am single. I just found it ironic is all.