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Re: honoring committments
wildvard2851 14 Reviews 2881 reads
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I think you have hit it right on the head.  We see a number of comments about this subject and in most cases it is getting much better.  But still, they know you are coming and if something comes up a quick phone call or voice message is or should be expected.  Of course it also depends on how you reached her originally and the number she may have had.  Hopefully nothing serious happened and it was a comminications snafu.

NYDavid2635 reads

just feeling chapped as a  set appointment with a well reviewed provider seemingly was blown off, yes i know unexpected things happen and i can roll with that , it is just that when you make an appmt. and make your day  work out so that you can drive from north phoenix to tempe in rush hour to be on time and there is no response to your phone calls at the appointed time , it sucks. I just want a heads up if the committment can't be kept, nothing more , nothing less. So anyway, what i am feeling is 1) disappointment at not spending time with this lady and 2) if it wasn't going to happen with her , i could have scheduled with someone else instead of seeing no one as it's so last minute. At the end of the day, this is a business and I think the casual approach in returning calls  and emails doesn't serve anybody. If I am off base with my thinking , please give me a clue.

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wildvard28512882 reads

I think you have hit it right on the head.  We see a number of comments about this subject and in most cases it is getting much better.  But still, they know you are coming and if something comes up a quick phone call or voice message is or should be expected.  Of course it also depends on how you reached her originally and the number she may have had.  Hopefully nothing serious happened and it was a comminications snafu.

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clubjeffe2551 reads

Off base?  No way!  As you pointed out - things do happen beyond our control.  We all - providers and hobbyists alike - have our vanilla lifes that we have to coordinate our fun around.  If the apointment can't be kept - the very least you can do is make a call, don't leave the other person hanging. And when you set an apoointment, be realistic about your timing - don't say you'll be there in X amount of time when you already know it'll take you XXX amount of time to get ready!

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azhacker1968 reads

and you have every right to be a bit "tweaked". The flip side is your admission that "unexpected things" happen. So its difficult to know if you got "blown off" or "glitched off".

Even if you got "blown off" the underlying reasons might be very understandable. Hopefully you'll get a call or email with explanation. Once along time ago I had a similiar situation with someone I was seeing alot. She "blew off"  a nooner. No calls emails etc...she finally called me at 4PM...before she could appoligize I told her the simple truth. Now that I know your alive, safe and in one piece I'm gonna stop being worried to death about you and be pissed for a bit....BTW...how bout noon tomorrow:)....

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AZ Misty2219 reads

yes things can happen - on EITHER side but a simple phone call or email is just simple respect and good business.  I know I have received calls from men who have had to reschedule due to various reasons and I have thanked them and happily rescheduled.  But do remember is she had to cancel she 1) may not feel comfortable in calling the number you gave her 2) an emergency came up and didn't have time to call 3) tried to call but didn't leave a voicemail for fear of getting you in trouble.  Remember we are trying to be discreet too.  But bottom line in my opinion is she should get in touch with you and for your inconvenience offer you a discount on your resheduled visit.  But that is how I handle it...good customer service.  But then when she does see make sure you have an extra special time too!  Again just my opinion.  

Sorry that happened to Chilopsis...next time coming to Tempe come see me!!  I would be delighted to see you.  

Thanks,
Misty

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