: Re: Double sword. yes... Useless... Yes : Discussion in Phoenix, posted by EroticAngel69

Double sword. yes... Useless... Yes

elitegray13 years ago992 reads

As Some providers will only take references from verified & trusted providers. If someone sends me information from an unknown provider or someone with trashy pictures or online rep, it makes me question the man.

elvis314113 years ago771 reads

GAAAAAAH!

Posted By: elitegray

elvis314113 years ago762 reads

I hadn't thought of that. I'm not entirely undiscerning, but a little more thought may be a good idea.

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elitegray13 years ago789 reads

Anyone one - ANY ONE - intrested in seeing a provider should email her. NEVER assume ANYTHING. We girls each often have our on private eye way of verification and is often easier than you would think .

elvis314113 years ago1073 reads

Very good point. Dang. This board is all sorts of useful.

Thanks for the advice, love.

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EroticAngel6913 years ago626 reads

I totally agree Im a computer expert and verifying is way simpler than lots think

theres always the nice detailed message compared to the "hi' "hey" or are you avail? "

i always like the name/loc/ can i see you at insert time here gets fastest response and lets me know they are genuine versus someone who wastes your tim

vamptat213 years ago740 reads

Why not...

Just join P411 or Date Check? It may be more helpful than taking chances with seeing someone who doesn't verify.

Posted By: elvis3141

I'm actually arranging to meet with providers that don't require references so that I'll have references so that I can meet with providers that DO require references.

I hope you appreciate my sacrifice, ladies! I have to meet with beautiful women so that I can eventually meet other beautiful women.

Ah, heck. You really are worth it.

balljointnut13 years ago699 reads

lot's of chicks say they verify but don't.

elvis314113 years ago799 reads

Because I'm entirely too chickenshit, if I'm honest.

I understand that providers' safety is of paramount importance. More important than anything, actually.

But my own safety and privacy is important as well. I hate to think of a place like DateCheck getting raided, and my information ending up in some law enforcement computer system.

Again, I'm a chickenshit.

EroticAngel6913 years ago707 reads

Id be happy to see you lol at least you've cleared up my question as to why not everyone has references. I can typically verify without all that easy. now if i only had the answer to why gents like to only message hi or u avail id be happy.....

ITAdmin13 years ago578 reads

Go see Angel, she seems like a really nice lady. As an IT Professional myself I would probably spend the entire time just talking to her lol.

ITAdmin13 years ago602 reads

Don't worry to much about it. If I remember right their systems are not in this country so there is limited risk of that.

lol to funny! Good 4 you! eom

QueenBia13 years ago678 reads

rachelsonoma13 years ago574 reads

plan, plan, plan

Have you asked the no ref providers if they would be willing to act as a ref in the future? Are they established? If the answer is yes, your strategy is good. Another option to consider is P411 membership. It is discreet. Once you get an "okay", it is permanent. You don't have to worry about communication problems or what if your ref retires.

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