I'm having a couple of issues right now & would appreciate a little insight.  

First I want to start of by politely asking if you are only going to contribute negative feedback, keep it to yourself.  I am looking for serious & thoughtful answers.

Rant One:

I am currently dealing with the issue of a fake review.  Although it was a raving one which highlighted my special skill, it is completely false & never took place.  I messaged said member asking him to explain himself & of course received no response.  I have reported it as false & am not sure what to do from here?  Leave it to the all mighty  TER gods to sort out??

This leads me to my second rant.  Again I ask that you please keep the negativity to a minimum...

As I have been receiving more & more reviews I have started to also receive more & more text messages from gentlemen questioning their legitimacy.  Above all else, I hope that I at least convey my integrity as a honest provider to my friends & peers. This is something I would NEVER do & leads to my next question...

Is it SO hard for SOME men to fathom that a gentleman would want to spend time with a woman like me & enjoy every FUCKING minute??  Are there really people out there who are so wrapped up in "physical beauty" that this is unimaginable?  Also, why even waste your precious time belittling & berating me about it?  Don't you have better things to do; like seek companionship with someone you actually want to see?  I know there are bad apples in every bunch but sheesh!!! Give me a break!!

 

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Caramel your sincerity and honesty are clear to see here on the boards so I'm assuming that all your reviews are indeed justified, sans one apparently It's a common but very frustrating phenomenon where an individual sees something they aren't attracted to, so they make the illogical assumption that no one else could possibly be either.

That being said, if you place yourself out in the public eye, be fully prepared to take a corresponding amount of heat/hate commiserate with the level of exposure you get. I believe a thicker skin would serve you well

Thanks Eggs.  I think you may be right...

You have been totally honest with all your intercouse and images on any site I have visited. Why anyone would feel it necessary to put out  
a fake review I can't understand, but don't let it get to you, there are plenty of us who love you for who you are and know better - read the reviews so smile

Maybe anybody with questions about a review legitimacy should ask the reviewer. I'm guessing my last review raised some interest.

Hey - There many different people in the world and some of them will never be satisfied with anything. That is just the nature of some and let them find solace in their bitterness. It should not effect you in the slightest and it is fairly easy to spot those people just from their comments.  
I don't know you personally but just from reading your posts and the info on your site I can tell you are an honest and sincere person and that is very attractive in this hobby. If you weren't so darn far away from me I would love to visit you. Keep a smile!
JC

I have also received a fake review. It was not a "bad" review, but it was completely false & I did not see this person. He also said he was able to break me down into doing a 1 hour appointment for $125. It has resulted in me being harassed by a lot of idiots who keep trying to break me down & make me give them that same rate. Sure, I can ignore them, which I do, but that doesn't make a lot of them stop. I've contacted the member, as TER told me too, and received no response. After speaking with TER, the summary is- if the appointment had happened, but he lied about WHAT happened, they would delete it (if I gave them all the information about the appointment. his number, when and where it took place, etc) but because he is saying it happened, and I am saying it didn't happen, it's his word against mine.

It's horrible because in reality, I was a victim of an attack in September that left me with broken bones, and I didn't see clients for September & October. No ads posted, no e-mails responded to, nothing. It's horrible that these fake, bogus reviews get thrown up & us gals are the ones who have to put up with what follows. Which is exactly why I cannot stand the free vip for review deal, but I promise I won't take over your rant with my own.

In regards to your second rant, guys are assholes. Sure, not all guys...but in our profession, we are more likely to encounter the assholes than your average girl. It all boils down to LOSERS with nothing better to do than look through ads and harass us. I have one guy who contacts me off different numbers every day and tells me that because I'm a white girl with a big ass, he will never have a chance with me because I prefer black guys. Well, he doesn't say it in those terms but I like to think I have a little more home training than he does, so I'd prefer not to repeat exactly what was said. I completely sympathize with what you're feeling, and I wish I could offer some insight into this but I'm feeling just as annoyed/fed up as you are with these guys.

Sending good vibes your way Caramel,
it's tough being a provider & we all have to stick together.

young lady!!

youl rock!! don't let the small percentage get you down..you are straight forward...outspoken and stunning!!

screw em (figuratively!!)..

you just keep doing what you are doing!! hold your head high and smile!!

you are admired from a distance!!

I don't like to post much but this one got me going!!  
First TER should have a way that the providers can put a mark by the review disputing it!  Even if they don't take the review down, it can be called into question!  

Second  I have been with all types of women and how they look has nothing to do with how sensual they are and how great a lover they are!  There is nothing hotter than a confident woman who owns who she is! A woman who give them selves in a session is always the best session!  Carmel, alexagrey you both are amazing for being you!!
Real men know that!

I really appreciate the support & enthusiasm from those I have enjoyed & some I hope to in the future

Thank you especially Alexa!  I remember reading about your situation & I agree we all are in this together.  I am happy to see that your are doing so well after going through so much the past few months.  

As for me, I will continue to do what I do & ignore those who try to bring me down ;