I believe the saying in this country is “beat a dead horse”, or “don’t beat a dead horse”, and-if I understand it’s meaning correctly-this is what I DO NOT want to do, but…

I believe that the home made “gang bang” videos, under discussion in Terri’s post and link, etc. 9/28/06 is very damming to this community.

Or, to put it another way, the Sheika does not think that "gang bang" parties are anywhere near an accurate representation of what this community is all about, and I believe that most respectable, PROFESSIONAL, upstanding, providers and hobbyists would agree.

In the thread mentioned above, there was some disagreement and hard-feelings about this. I am sincerely interested in your comments and thoughts about the issue...

Webby and the Terrorist are such loyal contributors to this forum that I feel sorry if I upset them..

LOVE AND PEACE,

Sheika Fatima


-- Modified on 10/4/2006 1:18:56 PM

why would the videos or the parties have to represent this community?

Just because a couple of women are escorts everything they do or did must reflect on the escort community?

Or that people that took part of something you don't agree with must be damned within this community?

Why would it damn this community?

It isn't connected to this community...or wasn't until you connected them...

As for any hard feelings, I have none...I thought you used hyperbole in your first post...I said as much.  You then questioned me about all kinds of things...I asked you a few questions, and you didn't answer, you instead questioned me on my feelings about "gang-bang" parties for profit...which I replied that my feelings, for or against, have nothing to do with the accusations and strong statements you made against a few people that were featured in an article.

Me upset? Nope.


Maybe I can attempt to clear your confusion a bit....seperate facts the people in the article had sex parties, wgere people paid a cover charge to get into those parties.

The women that were in the article are also escorts. (Who because of the investigation of the parties by a news station, had their escort site found and were then busted on a prostitution charge.)

The two things, though involving the same people, were seperate.  They are neither inter-connected, nor mutually exclusive.

Why do you want so much to connect them?
You simply are jumping to the same conclusions and same thinking the reporters did...if two things involving sex happen...then they must be connected...I had thought people here were a bit beyond that level of myopic thought.

Oh, and the only characterisation of these as gang-bang parties was when I said "gang-bang type" parties, as I lacked a better terminology..that was my fault.  

Here is a question for you...

If the fact that it is consenting adults, participating in sexual activities, where all parties want to be involved and no one is being forced to do anything they don't want to do, is an acceptable argument for the decriminalisation of prostitution...why isn't it an acceptable argument for these type of parties?

Does your acceptance of behaviors only go as far as behaviors you personally would participate in?

Now personally i dont go in for group activites (well other than few public parties with private playareas)
however if someone is willing to be the center of all that attention its not something i will naysay.
Live and let live is my motto.

in my opinion. A "gangbang" usually indicates something non consensual from frat guys pulling a "train" on a gal who is impaired and initiated consentual sex with one (or more) people. At the other extreme its a flat out gang rape. The word orgy has always been appropriate for consensual group sex. There is truthfully nothing going on that hasnt been happening for thousands of years.

Of course then you have my "nieghbor" who got caught boinking a goat.....which I guess is a goatbang...

Yes, I agree, a very poor choice of words. To this he will admit. This makes the man's comments all the more perplexing, does it not?

Let's hope Webby is a complex hobbyist who is capable of changing the way he thinks and feels about the profession. From now on he will probably subsitute the word "orgy" for "gang bang".

Allha Ak'br

Sheika Fatima

-- Modified on 10/5/2006 12:54:29 PM

Dearest Webby:

The videos are associated with this community by way of the media exposure, and the fact that the initial post concerning the story was made by an escort...

The media portrayed the Ladies as "sl*ts and wh*res" and the man as a sleaze-ball. This media portrayal is an evil fact, damning to us all.

The accusations were strong and rightly so; professional escorts do not want to be associated with the type of behavior portrayed in the video's, i.e. a bunch of fat, drunk, good ole boys a wait'n to get the next sloppy turn.

And, Webby sweetheart, really now, I don't believe you want to be associated with this scenario, either.

The Sheika believes this kind of dialogue is good for the community. I look forward to your comments.

PEACE AND LOVE,

Sheika Fatima  


-- Modified on 10/5/2006 1:26:54 PM

Ok...I will be more careful in my word choice in the future...if you'll be more careful in your gender classification.  

I may not be the most feminine woman you'll meet but calling me "He" is taking it a bit too far...Please substitute the word "she" for "he" when refering to me from now on. *grin*

As for how I think and feel about the profession...most of the ladies I know say they like how I think and feel about the profession...I'll ask them if they think I need to change.  *smirk*

and you turn out to be a XX

go figure, pwned by the internets yet again....