Obviously the answer is varied and unique for each person and has much more depth than this, but I think that when it comes down to it, the ultimate answer is because it is easy.

By that I mean it is much easier than trying to meet girls at a bar, etc. You get the most benefit with the least amount of effort. For most it is easier than the stress of meeting girls (social anxiety), or an easy way to fulfill fantasys, or an easier way to find an escape when there is otherwise no time. Just an opinion, but I think at the core of it, it comes down to it just being easier on those of us that do it, whatever the reason.

Such a stimulating question would require more than a post and much more than an email. Sheika, I would be happy to discuss this subject with you over drinks, or dinner. Your choice, my treat.

AHHH The dance continues...


Paul

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...that means everything is on sale.  The next group of millionaires is about to be created.

Sometimes it's just easier and more convenient to pay and drop a load than to work it. Also, you can work a girl and in the meantime get a nut and drop some CIM so you are not so pent up.

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sex always comes at some sort of price for both people involved; when a man endeavors to have a relationship, i believe that there are virtuous intentions undrlying the task, but there are also, most definitely, the animal urges demanding satisfaction, similar to the need to eat and sleep, men need sex in a way most women cannot understand. however, sex is often equated with commitment, and therefore, to have a gauranteed supply of sex, you compromise yourself (often more than you want to) in order to appease the demands of the lady, if you want her to stay. in turn, the women gives sex almost like a "present" in turn for her needs (which are many and complex and sometimes quite materialistically selfish) to be satisfied. this sounds very pessimistic, and i do not mean for this to apply to all situations, as i am in love myself with a partner and do not see myself as the type to use sex as a tool in our relationship, but then again, i am a provider, and in a strange way, perhaps this benefits my relationship.
no matter what the case at some point men pay via various medium, and women naturally flaunt their assets subconsciously, and consciously, as a means to some goal in mind. don't let this basic format of the beast in all of us dispell the other lovely attributes to women, relationships, and sex, i am just talking about the physical body and survival instinct at a primitive level.

personally i dont pay for the sex i pay for the lack of baggage afterwards. theres no nasty confrontations, scratched cars, hang up calls etc if i dont bother to call the next day or heaven forbid never call at all.

(what can i say i seem to attract the stalky crazies when i go amateur that is the main reason i dont often)

if they are nice and turn on adult swim on the way out the door ill think of them fondly as i watch naruto in my quiet drama free abode.