Who is the Sheika?

The Sheika is an older—some may say elderly-- lady who has been involved in and around the escort trade for more than a few decades. I am exceedingly passionate about the well-being of the ladies.I try to present the providers side of the story.

To my chagrin, I have been a messenger whose been shot more than once. I think this happens because I try to portray the escort business as it really is. Lately, our community has been disrupted due to a case of mistaken identity. It is an unfortunate faraway dispute where fantasy gets separated from reality. This is not a good thing.

To a large extent, the success of this business and community relies on the line between fantasy and reality being blurred. We need fantasy and illusion. When we get bogged down with minutiae and particulars, the fantasy begins to break down, clients begin to focus on reality, and everyone gets hurts. The prospects of outing, arrest, fines, jail is not good for business.  It’s just too real. So, I’ll put myself at risk of being shot yet again, in the hope that I may redirect hobbyist’s and provider’s attention away from the “all too real” illegalities and pitfalls of escorting, and toward the perception of fantasy.
 
The Sheika does not want to shatter any hobbyist’s illusions and deflate anyone’s all too precious-but very fragile-self esteem, but, the fact of the matter is this: the ladies want easy clients.  For the most part, the ladies just don’t care how old, how fat, and how out of shape you are. In fact, it might be to a client’s advantage. However, the ladies DO prefer clients with money.

In the escort business, the commodity that is advertised, promoted and sold is sexual and emotional fantasy. Providers are business people; and, as in most businesses, the retention of loyal, undemanding, financially appreciative customers who purchase the product and pay with ready cash are highly desired.

Simply put, working girls prefer to service easy clients who pay. They prefer clients that are easily fooled and easily satisfied. They prefer clients that will take the bait and buy the fantasy hook, line and sinker, and not ask a lot of questions. Feigned friendship is good customer relations. There is not an escort a live who hasn’t smiled and endured while a distraught client wines and complains about his wife.

Many escorts actually prefer clients that are clumsy, shy, unsure and insecure when it comes to their sexual prowess. Often, they will afford these “easy” clients VIP status. Working girls prefer clients who are easily sold a bill of goods and who will buy the sexual and emotional fantasy outright with no questions asked. Professional ladies DO NOT like to be reminded of the real, damaging dramas that disrupts cash flow and stifles the creation of illusion.

If anyone would like to dialogue with me off the public boards, I will be more than happy to answer your e-mails.

LOVE AND PEACE,

Sheika Fatima
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where you will receive many thoughtful responses, particularly if you sharpen up your points a bit and add a little attitude to your post. You will engage the PC elite, the neanderthals, and the ladies who are articulate and opinionated and have thought out the business model that works on TER.

      As you well know, you will be lucky to get more than 3 or 4 responses in this Board.

To exclaim that the hobbying community from both side" Many escorts actually prefer clients that are clumsy, shy, unsure and insecure when it comes to their sexual prowess. Often, they will afford these “easy” clients VIP status. Working girls prefer clients who are easily sold a bill of goods and who will buy the sexual and emotional fantasy outright with no questions asked. Professional ladies DO NOT like to be reminded of the real, damaging dramas that disrupts cash flow and stifles the creation of illusion."

You insinuate that providers take advantage of hobbyists and that majority of hobbyist are clueless.  I find this extremely insulting to both parties.

As usual, your post make no sense and have no added-value at all.  Basically, you serve no purpose at all and I don't believe for a minute that you are a former, now elderly, provider.  In fact, I wouldn't be surprised at all if you were actually LE all this long just toying with people.

GAWRSH
Clumsy, shy, unsure and insecure, Well Whaddya Know That's me.
But I'll tell ya when Mickey said Minnie is fucking Goofy he was not kidding.

Hyuck - Hyuck



Hey there Sheika how bout a pic of you, I do not think the Sheikh would mind

Marikod, darling, I sharpened up my points and added some attitude; then, I posted on the GD board...

Give it a look/see and tell me what you think.

I can hardly wait for the neanderthals to respond.

LOVE AND PEACE,

Sheika Fatim
[email protected]

In a lot of ways Sheika is correct as far as describing what the girls like in their clients.  At least some girls.

But from a guys prospective I think reality is reality.  To suspend disbelief with one of these girls can be suicidal.

I had a girl tell me once that their were only two types of guys in the world.  The ones that give them money and the ones they give money.

Not all of the girls are like that nor will all of them take advantage of you.  But none of them will if you live the why and what.  

Not living in reality can be hazardous to your ability to breathe.

but that's just me - YMMV

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I may not agree with the The Sheika always but the posts are thoughtful and informative.

style. I see this on both boards.

      As a result they do not address the substance of your posts and typically conclude that you are being pretentious.

      Why not nip this one and in the bud and explain either that it is simply your posting style or, if there is a cultural reason why you do it, explain it this way.

Seems a waste of time to get these type of responses every time you post.

Puck, you ARE you…  You are special and wonderful. The Sheika wouldn't have it any other way.

If you research the title Sheika (or Sheikha) you might become better acquainted with its cultural imperatives. Appreciating diversity inherent in cultural and racial differences promotes peace and prosperity.

Oh, and Puck, darling, your assessment of my mental state has a high probability of being correct. However, "batguano" crazy sounds a little more professional.

PEACE,

Sheika Fatima

I'm neither a former provider, nor am I LE.