The same replies will be heard
- out her
- move on
- she had a personal issue don't you know
- ask her to make it up to you

The thing is yes, it is a problem. It slowly infects the hobby because folks think it is ok. It is not. It makes other guys hesitate because of the drama. It hurts you because you will have a bad taste in your mouth for a while. My hobbling slows down with each bad experience. I screen more and then second guess. Didn't used to because it was a bit more reliable out there. Pre photo shop, handlers, bad reviews, shills, and flakes. And in Phoenix, pre bust and over-manipulation.

Ladies in a late position should either recommend someone, Or give you time to reschedule. But more importantly realize they should help you because it is good for the other ladies. And their business.

What ladies do not want to hear is guys double booking. And ladies complain about slow business. If 1 lady causes a bad experience it probably affects 10. I see it more in Phoenix than other towns.

I feel for you. I bat about 50 percent on good experiences to bad in Phoenix ( I am lumping in bad reviews, bad photos, lateness, bad service).. That's crazy considering the resources I have research wise. And when I do find one I hold on until she flakes. Or gets an ego bigger than mine. Or thinks it is ok to take advantage of my generosity.

We are asked to be gentleman, yet get treated like meat

Be part of the solution though and let folks know backchannel who it is. Silent reviews hurt. As you have been.

Peace and let market forces reign. I would rather have 100 great ladies than 1000 where 50 percent were hit or miss. My time is valuable.  And I don't want to hear "research" cuz I will blow a gasket. I do.

Or, as noted above, take the "stuff happens" approach.

Use Head and Shoulders!!... they claim no more flakes

Newsflash alert......The same SHIT happens to us providers as well!!

It's part of the business. Just continue going through your grievance stages, don't be influenced by negative people or you will become jaded, take a cooling off period and get back out there.

Gurantee you will meet a provider/providers who will make you forget what happened.

I keep reading these on all boards, so it is happening!

Sorry to say the least these providers are very unprofessional.  I require reservations & a 50% deposit to book, so I value my playtime.  I would never flake on a client.

I have been in this hobby for a long time. I have had quite a few girls flake on me over the years. And I know a lot of guys will do the same thing to you ladies. It is not right no matter who does it. Shit happens, I know. But why not a simple reply(text, call...something) to let the other person know, and not leaving them hanging. I was pissed the other day. I had reset my schedule to see her(you all know what I am talking about). I just needed to vent.....just found out an old friend is in town, and her and I are hooking up...all is good...

Two providers did this to me in the same day, I was mad as hell, because I wasted an entire afternoon driving all around the valley to have them flake on me.  I over compensated for the potential flake factor the last time I scheduled something with a provider, what I did was just have two chicks come to my hotel room, they both showed up together, so we just did a 3some.  That is thinking outside of the box, if I may quote an overused cliche.

..............  Book with Monica  ..... I have NEVER cancelled a confirmed appointment. I can't lick my own ...... believe me i've tried

For those of us who don't flake or cancel. It's equally as frustrating when a client flakes on us. Why can't all of us "non-flakes" just stick together so we don't have to deal with this crap? Everyone's time is valuable.  I hate flakes! On both sides. Just flakes in general. Annoying!