Phoenix
Hello everyone. As a community in this hobby, we tend to forget little things that we don't realize. We have to remember that the girls we see are human and not robots off an assembly line. Without these people, TER wouldn't exist, and we need to treat them accordingly. There are three major points I want to get off my chest.
1. Providers need their rest. The extensive tours they do, whether by car or plane, raising a family (yes! many of them actually raise families!), late nights, early mornings, really take their toll mentally as well as physically. Even if the provider says they can go all night and never get tired. Don't make them out to be like an Energizer bunny Super pornstar. Many of them don't get enough sleep and catches up with them. Or if all they need is an energy drink and they are set. Which is bad by the way, because you are just trying to squeeze more energy out of an already tired body. They aren't machines. They need rest so they will be at their best for us. So if they are too tired and need to cancel, be compassionate and understand...it will go a long way.
2. This comes to my next point. Even the most consistent providers will slip up in keeping meetings. They run into unexpected situations as we do. Nobody is perfect. Which is why some are late. You may even get a no call, no show from one who usually keeps you updated. Maybe rare but it can happen. Maybe they had a family emergency. They have things in their personal lives, people, who have priority over everything else. Maybe they had a delay in their flight, or had car trouble. Or just too tired because they do their best to accomplish everything explained previously, which can make them forget things. They need to take care of themselves before us.
3. Lastly we can't always expect these girls to provide 100% of their services all the time. They aren't blow up dolls. They provide because they choose to. If one says they like to be with other girls, that's only if they are in the mood, you can't force them. Or if they are a "Greek Freak", don't expect it all the time. I absolutely love going to the Greek Isles, but if they aren't in the mood, then that's okay with me. Just like your own girlfriend, or wife, you wouldn't push them would you?
Now what have we learned? Providers are human and have needs. They need their rest, have private lives of their own, run into problems and can forget things. Last but not least, they have the right to choose. I tend to be selfish, and in the process forget these points. So while we play guys lets remember we aren't playing with toys, they are poeple. I want to dedicate this post to a special someone who holds a special place in my heart, and you know why.
You know who you are.