I received an e-mail from a provider in Tucson Az by the name of Jordana who was unhappy with a review of her that I posted. In the e-mail she says that she will be sharing my personal information on the website and that it's fun to know things about clients. I am understandibly upset because I thought this hobby relied on its confidentiality. Is this common? Is this provider truly unstable? What options are available to me?

A woman who gets 7-10 is not a 3. If you give a 3 no one will believe you because it is so low, PLUS you will piss her off, PLUS it's just jerky.

I have this concept - it's only mine so throw it out if you don't like it.

Any guy who gives less than a 5 plain in looks and continued with that session is worthless as a reviewer. He's either stupid regarding rating systems, an asshole, disingenuous, vindictive, lacks the capacity for abstract thought, or some combo.

If she's a fake with fake pics, walk away. If you stay and you can't honestly say she is 6 nice, you're a moron when it comes to women. So if you go 5 plain, well that's shows you have no self worth, but al least your knuckles aren't dragging.


HH

First, most boards like TER won't let private info be shared for just such reasons (though they somehow let personal info slip at times in reviews like too accurate details on a ladies incall location). So find out the website she is talking about and contact admin.

Second, what info does she have. If it's just an e-mail and phone you can change those. If it's more, then take other measures. If she threatens to call/contact anyone you know tell them the situation first. Put your spin on it to ease the blow. Best to get in front of things like this.  

Finally stand your ground. This girl could potentially ruin her business and/or life just because she is upset with you. In a day or two she might come to her senses and back off.

Good luck darling.

Kisses,
Vanica Love

however, with that said, there isn't a whole lot you can do from stopping her. If she posts, and is unmoderated,  it will not be up for long, or if she is moderated the post will never see the light of day.  The Mods will not let it go thru.  It is not common, I've been at this a long time and not run across this. Do you belong to any of the screening sites, like P411 or DateCheck, this will alleviate you giving personal info ou in the future,
You can also ask well reviewed TER escorts to white list you here.  Sorry you're going thru this.  

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This  is a problem for more hobbiest than you know most just back away  and hide  out of sheer fear ....providers sre like general population you are going to get some unstable ones  or just plain crazies out there .....some are  bi-polar some drink too much  and some are just plain mean.....I would stand your ground  just by you posting this  will help report her to TER if she pm'd you you can forward any such treats to TER Mods to pass on your  behalf   save any e-mails fro your case....she can alway counter your e-mails  but as far as I know TER  will protect you from these loose cannons ......even a simple threat can cause her to be moderated sometimes forever if the mod chooses to deem fit...

First - Thank you sharing this info.
Second - What can we do. We as a consumer can boycott her services and let her know that it's bullshit what she is trying to pull.
I suggest everyone to email or pm this girl and let her know how we feel

Like Vanica said if it's simple information just change it, if she could do serious damage to you with other personal information I would be digging for dirt on her. Look on the bright side you posting this thread with her name and city will hurt the psychotic bitch's business. I'm sorry you're going through this especially during the holidays.

like there are two different women being review. I know that the numbers vary at times but 3 to 9 in looks that a lot of delta.

Unfortunately there are some who will do a header off the deep end and will threaten to out a man who has literally torn them to pieces with bad review,the thing not to do is get into a pissing match with her.

I totally disagree with the advice to dig up everything you can on her because that will feed the flames.
And we know that you have way more a stake in this ,and as soon as she figures out you're digging for dirt on her it may very well blow up in your face.

Just leave it alone and girls like that try to get the review removed and  move on as soon as they get
another review.

Let me ask you this though with such a startling difference between the photos,description etc
why did you not excuse yourself when you "knew you were not going to have a good time" rather than staying and tearing her to shreds with that review?
LT


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I'm getting questions about her also... other place... from this report.

Can you confirm the pictures on her link are actually her even if in her "better days".

Many reviews from different people over time say she is beautiful etc.

Want to be sure who you saw is really the gal in the linked citivibe ad.

And since she usually only wants e-mail contact did you reach her on her live.com address?

Very unusual situation but want to be sure was really her that was so bad and she is threatening you with personal info.

so you can stop your pathetic little boy stalker routine. You being a noob and all, it's been asked and answered.

We've had these convos on PM as well so STFU! and no matter how much you follow me I won't let you suck my cock.


HH

Performance concept:

A completely person subjective criteria. Influences to this will include:

(a) factors that can change from day to day e.g. either persons mood, physical health, unrelated issues that impact how a person responds (either person).

(b) Expectations - how rigid a reviewer is in accepting variances from those expections. How much of those expectations were born from real knowledge that could be a reasonable predictor, or from imagination, hope and desire which are basically a 'crap shoot.'

(c) a wide variety of other like variables that are not mentioned here.

So what this means is that it could be that a provider could reasonable have a range of performance from 3 to 10. And that many of those various reviews *might* have rated another reviwer's session similarly to how that reviewer did.

Is that similar to what you think is possible?




Appearance:

While personal taste can vary widely, there are now scientifically known reasons for attractiveness. There are actually measurable criteria.

So, if you rule out highly personal aberrant bias, and you are not comparing across cultures or across history, you will not find it common for a person who is given ratings on appearance of 7,8,9,and 10 on a 10 point scale, to have a rating of 3 by one or two people. That much of a drop is outside of *reasonable* and standard variance.

If someone does give a 3 rating to someone like that, the reason, which will be highly personal, likely has less to do with actual appearance and more to do with a reviews immaterial but strong biases. Further that unusually low rating is likely to have little or no meaning to any other person.

Related note: I have scoured reviews for years and spend an inordinant amount of time readind, rereading comparing, etc (I wont say why! lol) and I have seen a common trend: Many men who are dissatisfied with a session will give lower scores for the appearance than is common for that provider or for them to give - MEN DOWNGRADE LOOKS WHEN THEY DIDNT LIKE THE SESSION.
(and they are douchebags for doing that! LOL)

Is ther anything there that you agree with? Or is your take completely different.

Look forward to your reply!


HH

No web site, no reviews. Write a review, show us how it's done. I'll be looking forward to your first. With five hundred post you certainly have time and it's not like you don't like to write like most men.

If I were you in that situation. I would report her to TER. Save your emails and send them to TER. I am not sure if they can even do anything, but possibly if she has a membership they can ban her from TER.

In an earlier thread, we discussed the hobby changing. An honest guy comes along (520daddyg) , posts his opinions. And gets slammed by the provider who threatens to out him and guys saying his reviews are inconsistent. Dudes and duddetes - this is the kind of guy we need to support, not trample.

"In the future, however, I will not post as honest of a review." This sums up what JEFFREY, VAMPY, and others said. The hobby has changed.

I am disappointed in this thread in some regards. To 520daddyg I can only say PLEASE post your reviews the way you have. The knowledge and experience you gain, well, other guys should learn your true tastes and if they align with theirs, they will see (or not see) the girls based on the reviews. Venture to say, other guys had similar experiences with the girl you mentioned but did not put out there she had no makeup, scars, and was disoriented. And if the photos are old, yes, call it out. It is the only way to weed through the misdirections.

From this last post, you are not an "insensitive" person, and your first post was one looking for advice and of concern. Which is a good reason for this board to exist.

My standards, not unlike what you said, have remained high. Do not lower your bar. My chicken $h*! way out was to stop posting reviews as even the more "famous" providers are not perfect all the time. But as Kacie is looking for advice, the others should as well. Heck, if I was them, I would do a side email asking about the experience to the guy I just saw to get some honest feedback and try and line up a second appointment and make amends if soething was "wrong" - but that's me... Ego's are huge - like I said - they have drifted the other way.

Hang in there. There are some true gems out there. It is just harder to find them.

In the time of miracles, I wish everyone a great Holiday season! Have fun. Remember, if you are drinking and talking to a beautiful girl you may spit a little, so carry a hanky , and if you dance after a few drinks, yes, you will look like a spaz. But don't worry. It can now get up on YOUTUBE in a matter of seconds thanks to smartphones....

Peace and best wishes to all of you for a great New Year!

sorry...  or my balls!!!!


HH

I've been schooled! And it took Bob to do it!

But first you would have to grow both. In the mean time grow up. hahahaha

I agree with you half the time.

This once happened to me.  I had used an agency once many years ago for several years.  The lady that ran the operation posted on one of the other national boards and said that instead of an agency she was independent.  Later I provided a review that said that this was an agency and that the (2) girls that she ran were great.  I had not seen her previous post.  Well she called my cell and threatened me stating that she would call my SO if I did not have the post removed.  She knew my real name and city that I lived in.

I contacted the board and asked the mods to remove my post and why but they did not respond.  Well she posted on the board my real information including telephone number, called my SO, and made my life a living hell for several years.  I finally got the mods of the board to remove her post, and she was banned, but the damage was done.  Later I read in the newspaper that she was arrested and lost her job as a parole officer.  I wonder who her ladies were?

Anyway, to this date I will never divulge my real name or place where I live.  This has cost me some dates with ladies that I wanted to see but better safe than sorry.  I do provide references and am white listed on this site so that helps.  BE SAFE.

Nice of you to rub my sore bum after making it so red.


HH

Exactly why I refuse to give out in writing/email etc any personal information - do matter how innocent the provider sounds.  I understand caution but its a two way street and often enough the hobbiest has more to lose than a provider if you think about it.  Information does not guarantee safety and LE concerns can be handled initially easily enough.