Girls to guys

"Not a clock watcher"
"It is all about you"
"Be on time" (buzz kill)
"My pictures are current"

Guys to girls

"For a discount I will write a great review"
"You are my ATF"
"I can't wait to do this again"
"You are so special"

Key is, we know when it is BS and when it is real. Go with your gut.

If it is an out of town gig and you never met, forget it. If he is in town, let him buy you coffee and read him then. I don't think any sane hobbiest would book a 12 hour date without having spent an hour in someones company.

OR... DO AS THE GUYS DO and TOFTT  

Vickie know what to do research him.

He maybe legit and a good client.

Guys who talk about giving you a large sum of money without ever having met you are much more likely doing so because they have no intentions of actually paying it.

The fact that he feels the need to reassure you that he CAN pay is what makes you wonder if he intends to at all.

If a guy does intend to book for a long or extended session, he does so and never talks about the cost in any way... just the time.

So, my question is, "Why are you trying to tempt me?"

That's enough alone to make me turn down the offer.

I once did that, and the guy said, "But don't you want the money?" No, Mr. Police officer or Jacka** that thinks a woman will do just anything for the right price, or college kids trying to play a joke on me.

I don't want your "money."

Tell him if money doesn't matter to him. Then he should have no problem giving you ALL his money for nothing. I bet it starts to matter then.

Usually a person making that "money is no issue" approach is lacking self confidence and hopes money will make up for lack of ..... whatever.   The other motivator is the person is hoping that excess money will make you want to jump thru the phone and be all over him with extra special VIP attention.  Either way its an insult and presumes all the wrong things

I just hang up and go about my day.
Hope yours is going great !