there were a few good answers but I guess, still not what I was hopeing for. Then again I am not sure what it is that I am looking for as far as in an answer, I gues I will know it when and if I see it.
Question to other providers WITH children, where do you say you are going when you go to work? What have you said, when asked if the child can go to work with you, or just see where you work, or to explain what it is you do, how far is it, are there other poeple there, do you like it and many many many more that just keep comming. My seven year old has got a question for everything and is teaching his 4 year old brother to do the same. My lack of response to his questions only peeks his curiousity the more so I can only tell him it's none of his business for soo long which time is getting short for me even though he is my son and I am the one in charge, I still feel that he deserves some sort of an answer, he needs something he can wrap his mind around in order to get a mental view of his mother at work. --Know what I mean? So if you got an answer please let me hear it. Thanx in advance. D
D that is a great question. I have childeren at home and although they are older (pre-teen and teenaged) I have always been honest with them, since I was in this profession when they were little. When I say honest, I don't mean I revealed information they didn't need to know. I am a Massage therapist, when I used to do Outcall, I would tell them, I am a special therapist that goes to the homes of my patients and help them relax. That was enough for them. When I began doing incall exclusively, I took my kids in and showed them where I worked. I still do , on occation have them stop in and lunch with me or hang out for a little while. I was never gave them the impression that what I did was a secret, nor was I secretive with them about about my manner of dress, my website, photographs for business ads etc. I have always had a very open relationship with my childeren, so when they had a question I would answer it. Sometimes the simplest honest answer is all they are looking for and we the adults blow it out of proportion for fear of what they may say to someone else. Keep your answers simple and honest and that will most likely curb their curiosity. Hope that helps ya ~Malissa~xoxoxo
Since two of my children are females there is a possibility that they would see my chosen profession as something they may be interested in. I don't see my son, who is 17, showing any interest in becoming a massage therapist/provider, however I could see him as a hobbiest...he loves women in general lol and has basicly grown up around massage therapists, escorts, sexworkers etc. If either of my girls expressed an interest, I would support them whole heartedly no matter what their career choice was. They have grown up with a realistic/honest education about sex, human sexuality and self esteem. So I wouldn't worry about them getting caught up in the "darker" self depreciating aspects that this buisness can offer. If you give them a solid foundation of love,honesty and trust and the confidence to know that they can be what ever they want,along with a healthy dose of self/body respect then half the battle is won. But my children have been exposed to the business their whole life and it's ups and downs. There aren't any taboo's in my raising my kids. They know they can ask me anything and I will tell them the truth...the age appropriate truth lol, but the truth none the less. So, no I wouldn't mind if they made the decision to join this business. Since I know they wouldn't make any life/career decision on a whim or fancy. ~Malissa~
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