Hello! this is ava evans. I am being harassed on cl and blacked mailed via emails.
I have name and email address
does anyone know what I can do??? Please help me!!!

This guy says if i dont pay him he wil continue to post bs and lies about me. I dont know what do do. I am tired of this. its been going on for 3 days now.

All i wanted to do is post an ad and meet people. I guess cl isnt the way. but the other ways arent working for me. I dont get business.

I am lost and I dont know what to do about this guy. i dont want him to ruin my business out here. I am enjoying myself out here.

Only thing that comes to mind is to simply ignore it and stop responding to his taunts and lies. These bashers are so stupid and transparent that most people see through them anyway. And their small minds usually get bored and move on if they stop getting a response from you.

1 dont worry about anything said on CL no one takes anything there seriously.

2 blackmail is a crime call the cops

3 dont give him a thing.

your on my short list to see for what its worth

-- Modified on 5/21/2006 2:42:48 AM

Actually never mind why should i ruin a good thing for myself......

Hello Ava,
Sinced you asked... here is my advise.

1. Network with local providers in regards to "this guy". They should be warned and may be able to provide usefull advise, besides if your going to be staying here you should try to be an active part of the local community.

2.Be a little patience in finding out what advertising and where to advertise that works best for YOU. IMHO "other ways" will work in the long run and you will have to decide if cl is the way for you or not. IMHO advertising on phoenix411 was a good decision.

3. This forum is the most active for Phoenix that I am aware of so your side of things and request for advice has been heard.

4. Ava, please do not be offend for me reminding you that you need to be confident that you are in control of this situation. One or even two negative opinions will not ruin your business, but might temporarily effect it. Simple continue to be an excellent provider, providing satisfaction, and your reputation will be undamaged. You are in control, your actions are what is important, not "this guy's" opinions.

5. You need to give everyone who posted their advice in this thread a special discount to come see you to confirm our positive impressions of you.
(Please don't be offended for a working class hobbyist for asking... I was almost a gentleman up to this point.LoL)

Best regards and wishes... hope we have the opertinity to meet some day

Ezcoyote

Fortuna audaces juvat... Fortune favors the bold...

time spent with a lady, somehow CL doesn't come to mind as a good source.

I rarely review anyone unless im asked to. Most CL girls dont have websites and since CL ads expire after a few days, im not going to be tacky and point to the ad in hopes of getting one past the staff.

Escorting is legal but blackmail is not.

I wouldn't trust a review from CL. The reviewers are unknown and most likely fake reviews anyhow.
The gals on Phx411 are the way to go.

I can think of at least 7 well reviewed ladies who advertise on craigs. The thing with craigs is its not for sissies you have to be able to read between the lines and be willing to do your homework. Ive seen 20 providers or so off of craigs without a problem, then again i know how to use the site to my advantage....