can some help me figure out how to whitelist ?

I use to whitelist my have not been able to find the directions to do so....also I am missing my "see my TER reviews" badge next to  my  name......I have 121 reviews here  and would like help in linking them ....thanks in advance to anyone  that can share their info on how to get these last two items  in place.  Also a BIG thank you to our MODS  for helping us get unmoderatered let the postings begin!
It would  also be fun  to hear from those in the 45% club that never post or the 29% that read but never post  maybe just a roll-call of sorts where you can stop by  and pop you board cherry and say hello even if it is just ONE post so we know your out there! Try it  you might enjoy it  and be surprised by  the welcome you might get!!!!! The perks would be as we grow more in number and folks get comfortable we can then consider some plans down the future to meet .....M/Gs  ended a long time ago  but with so much water under the bridge.... maybe  just maybe a small group can come together   so members of the 49% and   the 29% clubs  lets  say hello