should no shows or cancellation be reviewed by me about the provider or does this happen all the time?
I saw a review saying a provider was hard to get ahold of. does this mean she was a no show or cancelled?
u r thoughts
this is happening in tuscon

Unfortunately cancellations happen all the time to both clients and providers. Before you put her name out as a flake try to find out if something actually went wrong. I've had to bail on providers at the last minute due to one thing or another so give her the benefit of the doubt if you can.

As to no shows, it's basically a one and your done thing for me. I always inquire the next day as to what went wrong with the lady but in the absence of a reasonable excuse then I would post your experience here on the board.  

BTW a lady I'm seeing on a regular basis was a no call no show for our first appointment. She apologized the next day and then became one of my ATFs so you never know until you ask.  

   

usually refers to when a hobbyists is first attempting to contact a provider. It usually appears in the general area of the review.  Remember you cannot review a NCNS, so if there's a review, the reviewer did in fact get a hold of and met the provider.  

I can think of a couple of Phoenix providers who are hard to get a hold of, it's mentioned it almost all of their reviews,  but when you do finally meet them, it's fantastic !!  Remember many providers have families, full time jobs, and other obligations and the hobby just is a part time situation.  

 

As mentioned above, there are a million things that could and do happen.  If you get a call alerting you to a situation, then there's nothing to worry about.  No call/no show is a bit different.  

Fool me once, shame on you.  Fool me twice, shame on me.  

A year ago, someone who I really liked, did a NCNS twice on me and I've not been back.  If a companion does not have the basic courtesy of calling, then move on and don't worry too much about it.  Would it be nice to have that option in the review? Yes.  Is it going to happen?  Very doubtful.

thank u for your responses

I am sure all of us, have been stood up at least once for a date.  So you should always have a couple of back ups on your cell just in case.  Also make sure to confirm your plans at least two or three hours before your date on the same day!  This way you will know for sure, whether she is coming or not that same day.

The one thing, I will say is sometimes the lady has a good reason for standing someone up.  Just give her another chance, now if it happens again.  Well then you have to decide, where to take it from there!!!

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