I recently tried to do a reference for someone he was on my list of seen clients and thought I knew him  so gave a heads up....later I find out from him why  she mistrusted him  what he had done was  cancel his date with her  because of the date and time  and ask her  if  she would  reference  him for the new AZ girl he wanted to see , he thought since she had already checked him out  she could now be his reference point.....not true  you must SEE the woman you use as a reference  not by 3rd party  hearsay......I explained this to him and he said he did not know the rules and now would only contact providers he had SEEN to speak  on his behalf I now understand her concerns with his behavior as being somewhat  shady  but the truth is he was a good guy and a good client and now he is not going to be able to see second AZ girl due to his mistake everyone loses

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