And don't give her a second chance.
There's to many good providers here that wouldn't do that to you. I know the felling a one or two hour drive sit and wait 30 or 40 min's and never get a reply. Fuck that shit once is enough. Or better yet rent a room for out call only stock it with drinks and food and then NCNS. That's when you need a good back up plan. We all live and learn even the providers go thought this. There's no guarantees in this hobby.Why would a well reviewed provider stand up a well verified client? To verify the person and several calls back and forth and then I drive and get off the free way at 202 Red mountain Freeway and Power and call several times and no answer. This provider is Taylor she list her age at 100 nice looking MILF lady.She posts on bp and has TER good reviews WTF ??
and there's really no answer. If this is a first for you consider yourself lucky. When it happens to me, I just move on.
Good advice HH, nothing else really to do...
Thanks to all for your words of wisdom. I just hate it that a questionable provider cost another provider a good client and cost me by wasting time I could have charged one of my clients. Thus, I lost out on my valuable time that I spend on atleast one provider each week. Oh well I will move on and see 2 new ladys next week...
Same thing happened to me with 3 ladies, as HH said just move on but it did make me wonder for a few hours. Then I saw Savanah and all was good again.
It happens to them too of course. But at least a text saying "Sorry. Something came up. Have to cancel" would be appropriate in a cancellation.
I so agree with that! I honestly hate wasting time in my day responding to sometimes over 20 texts and two calls from a client only to neever hear back too close to appt. this wastes everyones time and costs the provider several appts she may have taken if she hadnt waited for the one. sadly this has caused a few to double book backups and cause further mess... same for our lovely gents! wastes their time when they could have seen another lady had they known earlier. heres to fewer cancellations and naughtier times! lol
I've had 2 top 20 providers, National, NCNS on me. It always sucks, but all you can do is move on. Maybe she will call you later and explain what happened, but the best thing to do is move on.
Thank you for your great comment. I plan on doing exactly that, move on to my next adventiure...
And don't give her a second chance.
There's to many good providers here that wouldn't do that to you.
I know the felling a one or two hour drive sit and wait 30 or 40 min's and never get a reply. Fuck that shit once is enough.
Or better yet rent a room for out call only stock it with drinks and food and then NCNS. That's when you need a good back up plan.
We all live and learn even the providers go thought this. There's no guarantees in this hobby.
Wish I had a good answer for that one. I'm sorry to hear you were inconvenienced in such a way. I guess maybe the same reason I take all the time to confirm and verify with a client only to have a call 5 mins before arriving off an hr drive that he has to wash hair and relatives stopped by... lol might have changed her mind and taken a better offer or just didnt feel like seeing you i guess. both equally rude. I do pride myself in being polite and caring and respond as fast as possible. if I cannot see anyone I do like to let them know ahead of time so they may find alternate help for the day. I wish you'd had a more pleasant experience and I realise bad apples are the reason us nice girls have a harder time getting seen occasionally due to mistrust from these. wishing you all the best in your future relaxations and if you are ever in need of an excellent o/c in glendale/phoenix look me up! Ashley
Hello Ashley,
Thank you for taking the time to send your comment of kind words. I was going to her incall and the protocall was get off the freeway 202 to power and call for address. When I called after exiting the freeway no answer. The worst part of all of this is that, I take one day each week to see a new provider. I work in a high stress profession and this is my day that I look forward to. I admit that sometimes I take 2 day's but usually I can not. I really enjoy my hobby and I have met many really great providers that I appreciate very much. Maybe she did get a better offer? I don't grind providers on their fees and I am nice looking I am told. I should have called you! Lol Maybe my pride took a hit, Italian ego!! I just got a text from this lady and she said "there are many girls out there should have called them,get over it ha ha"?! Oh well, not all people are created equal, the lady you choose will make a difference... Love to meet you at your place![]()
I'll be the lone dissent. It's easy to say just write her off, but you should rethink what made you want to see her in the first place- it may still be worth it.
I was in the apt. complex parking lot waiting on a lady to pick up who just wouldn't. Next day she texted that she was sorry and could meet. I wanted to see her because she reminded of a certain somebody I know (whom I will certainly never be in bed with). The second time worked out, and it was one of my ATF experiences. BTW she did have a decent excuse of why it didn't work out the first day, but still, she should have called or texted. If she were still around, I'd be back there no doubt.
I would have to agree wiyh you in your case. However. yhis provider texted me today and stated" smething came up. you should have called someone else haha get over it" Any chance of me showing up was then not going to happen. Thanks for your thoughts. The good news is. we have many great providers here in AZ
I probably won't make any friends with this response, but I think this is absolutely horrible. Whether something came up or not, the right thing to do would have been to contact you. I have NEVER missed an appointment. You are right, there are many wonderful, reliable providers out there! Sorry this happened!!
I thank you darling, if she woud have been nice about it, I would have probably showed up agaain.
until she posts on the ad board and post your NCNS experience with her on that thread.(assuming you tried to contact her for an explanation)
I've seen providers do it on regional board.
that should get her attention.