This is the second attempt to post...
I had a 2 hour session setup with a new provider from a respected agency. This was my first time with an escort. I did not make my novice status clear to the woman on the phone, but I did to the escort. The young, attractive lady showed up on time. Due to our mutial inexperiance, the engagement was mostly conversation and too little action. I contacted the agency through their web site, and called after no contact for a week. I am due back in Phoenix soon and wanted to try again, but I felt some adjustment by the agency would be appropriate. I explained my dissatifaction, that I was new to the hobby, that I felt that a more experianced escorte would have seen that she needed to take charge. I was civil and respectfull both the the escort and to the woman I have been talking on the phone.
   My question is, should I expect some adjustment on the next arangement, or chalk it up to life and move on?

TIA
J.Barlet

.......time and companionship only. I do not know what the agency will do. However, you may have to accept your first experience as a life learning lesson because you received the lady's time and companionship just as arranged. Your post states that the person who arrived at your door was a "young, attractive lady (who) showed up on time." Believe me, one can do much worse on their virgin voyage. And truthfully I have had ladies tell me and also read posts which state that some men are only interested in talking. So unless you indicated otherwise, you cannot expect your companion to be a mind reader. Moreover, by your own admission in your post a couple of threads below, you acknowledge that you did not mention your newbie status to the assistant who arranged your rendezvous. If you had, then the assistant may have introduced you to someone with more experience in taking the lead. However, my guess is that you told the assistant that you would like to spend time with a young, attractive lady and VOILA............



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No, the discount that you are begging for is not necessary.  As unclewilly said, you seem to have received just what you asked for, what you paid for, and what was advertised.  Sorry the experience didn't meet your expectations, but if you don't tell the agency, or the lady what you are hoping for, you are bound for disappointment.

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I posted to get a reality check from folks with more experiance than I. There is no begging involved. A test of the agency's customer service commitment and desire for my repeat business perhaps. I admitted my mistake to them in not stating my experience, and will abide by what transpires. As an aside, I do feel the references to advertisements is, in the real world, a bit disingenuous all in all. How many agencies or independents will do business with someone who on the phone says they want sex?

First off your getting what you paid for to a tee. Second if i was you before your next visit find a woman that independant and email or call. Explain that your a newbie and semi outline what your looking for as discretely as possible. There are a Ton of Hot independant woman in PHX that will treat you more then right.

...that the plan, that was one of the 2 choices "...chalk it up to life and move on"

Hi Mr Bartlet,

You mention in both your posts on this that you made it clear to the young lady that you were both, "New and Nervous", and you think perhaps her relative inexperience may have been an issue to her not "taking charge"...that could be.

Another possibility though...
Whereas the statement of being new and nervous might be an indication that the lady need take charge, it can also mean, "I want to take this slow", "I need to be more comfortable before I do anything", "I am having concerns (or whatnot) about being here and I need to calm down and take my time, to be sure this is right for me", etc.

If you don't make it clear not only that you are new and nervous, but that because of that you wish for the lady to lead, how can she know which would be the appropriate action?

She wouldn't want to "come on too strong" with the newbie.  She wouldn't want to do anything that could be construed as pressuring you into something you weren't sure of for yourself yet.  She wouldn't want to scare the hell outta you.

Next time perhaps go for a lady with more experience, but either way, make it clear not only that you are quite new at this but that because of that you want her to take the initiative.  Hell, go for the cute, charming thing and tell her you need her to lead, because you are new and then add a cute little "be gentle" with a grin.

A rather weak analogy for the situation:
It would be like going into a restaurant and saying, "I'd like food please" so they bring you a soup and salad, you eat it but then after you pay the bill tell them you would have rather had a steak.  You didn't order a steak, you didn't tell the waitress you were in the mood for maybe something steak like, and she saw you glance at the salad bar and soup tureen, so she took a shot.

There were any number of ways the lady you saw could have handled your appointment, some of them you would have been satisfied with, some not (obviously), but the only person that had any idea of which was which, was you, and you didn't tell her.  To then think the agency should make an adjustment for you is a bit unrealistic.

Chalk it up to knowing better next time that you need to let the lady know if you want her to take charge of the situation because of your nervousness and newness.  I am sure it's not what you want to hear, but in this case if you were disatisfied, the fault lies with you and not the lady you saw, or the agency she works with.

Better luck next time.  

Hi!
Just to explain you how the things work,is not the agency fault or the girl so don't expect a discount,if the girl was on time and with you the 2 hours then you get what you pay for, the girls have to be very careful with the new costumers, if you don't make a move first, she can't read your mind so she don't know what you want, some guys just want to talk, that is true, if you want more then make it clear, if you take your clothes off she will the same, if you touch her she can touch you back,you can tell her that you want her to be in charge, but you have to make some moves first, so she can know that you are a guy that is new in this, and no someone that is trying to set her up...

-- Modified on 3/26/2006 4:17:23 PM

if you are new to this hobby, then you didn't have prior references. That is a red flag that you are a newbie, obviously! Whatever the case, the man is in as much control as the woman (if not more), so you could have always asked or cleverly implied that things speed up. Are you shy?

Second, take this experience for what it was: your first time. If the lady was attractive and you reached satisfaction then great! If you want more seduction through less talk then keep that in mind for your next session. Or, email me for an appointment. I'll make it worth your time. Wink!

Hugs,
Ciara

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and I can't think of a better lady to enter the hobby with!

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