keeps the illusion intact and as this is all fantasy, who really knows what is in the envelope..

Either one has their place.

But I have oft been the recipient of a sweet card with a little note akin to 'Thanks for our time together'... which makes me smile long after my nethers have cooled.

Never a bad thing... IMO.

I have been known to roll up the donation and insert it thru a 50 gauge cigar band just for giggles

Re: Envelope or no envelope

personally, as a provider....I hate envelopes.  I have a "loose change bowl" where loose change can be placed....I know everything is in order and relaxation comes sooner  

I've been taken a few times by the "envelope"...since I never discuss it..and only open it after the door has closed...seeing a single inside a sealed envelope does not make me a happy camper after an hours worth of a REALLY good time.

So...long story short (sorry) I am against the envelope.  

Good luck/stay safe/ and always have fun!!!

I put the money in plain view...usually so that the provider can scan it at a glance and know the correct amount is there.  I hate it when a provider counts before the session and if its in an envelope....it makes it harder to count and even more untrusting for the provider to "open" the envelope to count it....so putting it in plain view helps save me the feeling of not being trusted, if the provider is a counter!

Either is fine in my opinion. I find one no different than the other, but that is just me. THe only package I am concerned about when I am visited is the visitor. The donation is 2nd... or 3rd.... lol

If the provider's web site specifically asks for the donation to be in an envelope, then I follow the directios. If not, it is not on the first visit, so she can see it and easily count it. On future visits sometimes I use a card.