Granted that the service is outstanding, than it's usually the connection between myself and the provider. I have that with my atf, which keeps me coming back time and again.

Re: Question for the guys..Besides the obvious..What is it that makes you want to see a provider aga

I can only speak for myself, of course, but I repeat with providers who truly seem to enjoy what they do.  I know that may be naive on my part, but if I leave an encounter feeling that we both had fun, then I'll probably be back.

We are both people first, I hope for at least a nice connection in personalities (I probably have seen a picture so that's why I would call)  I want to be treated well for the time I'm asking for. (And of course I will be a gentleman)



I just want her to see that I'm happy with the time spent and accommodate me within her boundaries.  



My Best,

Bordello

Plain and simple friendship. There are a lot of ladies that I'd love to see again and again, just from the honest connection that we shared. I've had terrific sex with some ladies, but would probably not see them again, simply because there really isn't anything for us to talk about. I'm a dinner date kind of guy, and there's nothing worse than sitting through a meal with someone when you have nothing in common. I have friends all over the country that I'm just dying to see again.

I prefer a genuine, mutually pleasurable experience.

...so someday I can get that new gas grill for the back deck! just kidding

No matter how good the session I want to repeat with someone with whom I click. A little laughter, a little silliness and a little interesting conversation along with a feeling of acceptance will make me a loyal, repeat client.