When providers are arrested for drug charges, DUI's, traffic violations, theft, or other charges to include sex crimes. Do Hobbyists take them off their list?  Do Hobbyist even care? Do providers even care that a fellow provider is getting messed up with problems? Please I would like some honest responses if possible.

look, these providers charge us a fortune (idk if your a hobbyist or a provider sorry) and there's no mystery that what we're doing here isn't exactly anything noble. We all know the law frowns on it, the way I figure it providers charge clients a fortune due to the risk involved.

So providers know the risk, if they make a mistake and get caught what am I supposed to do? I paid my dues... did the provider take any of that money she received for services and use it to hire a lawyer in case she gets in a fix? She should've...

That's all I can say. Now if we're talking about a provider that I've been seeing for a long time, who hooks me up on the pricing and who spends time with me outside of work well then that's a different story. That means she's a friend and I'm loyal to my friends.

But if we're talking about someone who has a strictly business relationship with me and will not so much as give me the time of day unless she's receiving her set hourly rate and would without hesitation take half a month's wage from me in a single night (i don't know about y'all but I'm a blue-collar worker), then Hell no I don't care what happens to her.

Tell me I'm wrong, tell me I'm being unfair. That's just how I see it. I don't mean no harm to nobody., just telling it how it is.

And what do I care if she gets hemmed up for drug, theft or traffic charges? Did I have anything whatsoever to do with that? :P

Very well said!  Especially pointing out the difference between strictly business arrangement vs. friendship.

Now however, if I read in the paper that she was arrested for being a serial killer who posed as a hooker and then wore the skin of her victims .... yeah, might move her down to the third string call!

oh ok I see, I guess I kinda misunderstand the jist of the thread. Just rattled off on my soapbox :P Ya... we probly should care :\

AZ Lacey, I understand we all have lives and we have to make our priorities. I was just trying to see if hobbyist care or dont care when  someone they have seen gets in trouble with LE for another offense.  For providers though.. does the "sisterhood" circle the wagons and help or "each provider is on their own" when they get in trouble.
   for me personally when someone ends up on the news or newspaper or internet, I usually will drop them off my internal list of possible providers. Recently though, I am intrigued cus this providers is attractive, great reviews, but has ended up in jail since August and is on www.youtube.com  in a video portraying going through a bad time in her life. Believe me, I know its no skin off my back, just amazed.

I  have no interest in anyone with a drug or alcohol issue or one that steals.  

However I would be very supportive if busted for doing what is a alleged "morality" crime with no victim other than the "State", and legal in almost all the rest of the world.

Between provider and client probably relatively safe.  But with the latest tricks of LE using busted companions as references this is a way to sadly cause more turmoil between escorts.

While smooth may have been overly blunt I agree with him 100% I most certainly don't expect a lady to spend time with me outside of a session but if she only wants to see me when I pay then she is just a business contact and not a friend. Simple and no hard feelings either way.

oh yeah same here, I didn't mean to sound bitter or anything. Just a professional relationship, and I am totally cool with that.

When I decided that there are experiences I haven't had that I would like to, before I die (hard to have them after death!!), while I still can and while I can still enjoy them, I thought about starting dating a variety of women to search for ones or one who wanted the same experiences or who who enjoy having  me experience them.

Huuuuum?

While my theory made sense, perusing it did not.

What finally made the most sense, seemed the most feasible way to accomplish what I want is to hire someone, or hire more than one person.

When I wanted to learn about, gain the skills necessary, have the hands-on experience so that I can make vases from a lump of clay spinning on a potter's wheel, I took classes—hired an instructor to guide me through what I needed to know, provide a place for me to experience.--Hired Expertise

I've hired contractors to fix my house; to add things to my house.--Hired Expertise
I've hired doctors to diagnose and treat my medical conditions.--Hired Expertise
I've hired Pharmacists and Pharmacies to fill prescriptions.--Hired Expertise.
I've hired dentists to discover and fill cavities; used their employees for teeth cleaning.--Hired Expertise.
I've hired a person to transport my motorcycle to a dealership.  Hired Expertise.
I've hired a dealership to repair my motorcycle.  Hired expertise
I've hired the same place to buy replacement parts from for years.  Hired Expertise.

While I respect the accomplishment of becoming an M.D., a Ph. D, and an individual's experience within their chosen field or area, and desire some what of a personal relationship with providers I consistently see, for me an escort who is going to sexually share themselves with me, and use their acquired skills to create wonderful bliss like feelings in me is special.

That is not to say however that I respond the same way to every escort.  While some may have talent and skills, using them for my delight and pleasure has a much lower priority than their own desires—nothing special about indifference.

I've fired doctors, dentists, Pharmacies, carpenters, auto and motorcycle mechanics, insurance agents, attorneys, etc.

Those providers that I have a repeated business relationship with are special to me.  What I want from them is their best judgment.  As long as I still believe our business relationship is still unhindered best judgment, I do not see any reason to change.

Your supposings cannot be uniformly applied to all of the different providers.

Traffic ticket?  One DUI? Theft of what? Food when you are broke? Formula for your baby? Joy-riding when your drunk and a teen-ager? Sex crime, both under age high schoolers? Busted with Pot?  Selling POT?

Bob