Based on your reviews, it seems that is a very rare experience.  Maybe a misfire date didn’t get reviewed because the guy felt it was on him, and he didn’t want you to suffer a mediocre review because it was his fault or issues?

.... because I've had similar experiences where they were really quiet and passive that they almost seemed distant and later she/he's emailing about the great time they had. Better than the alternative/flip side though where you thought the date couldn't have gone any better and then a 'meh' review might pops up somewhere lol.

That's why I tend to repeat with those lovely ladies with whom I share that chemistry. And since it is a trait that is not quantifiable before you meet, there is a certain amount of the unknown that goes into meeting anyone for the first time.

You might get a sense of the person from communications, their ads or board presence -- but there's no KNOWING if you're going to "click" with someone until you're together.

Sometimes it works, sometimes it doesn't and sometimes it just goes south altogether. I try not to beat myself up too much about it -- not every time at bat is a home run, right?

I’m totally guessing, but some guys are introverts and simply aren’t expressive, or even talkative around women. Being unsuccessful with women can have a debilitating affect on a mans confidence and social development as a kid. I’ve known a lot of guys like that growing up. Guys who didn’t get dates (or had standards and wouldn’t settle for what was available to them) they were forced to find other ways to fill their time. They played video games, played D&D, collected comic books etc. Great people, good friends, but have no idea how to behave around beautiful women.

Obviously their lack of social skills affects their ability to have any kind of intimacy, or relationships, which is probably the reason these kinds of men are hobbyists. They simply don’t have any experience and are in an unfamiliar environment when alone with you. Guys like that are very talkative when in an environment they feel comfortable in, but socially, in large groups or in an intimate setting with a woman, they can be uncomfortable and feel out of their element. They are the exact opposite of successful guys who are married in how they behave around women and often why they’re with you.  

I also lack social skills and had never been successful attracting women growing up. I’ve noticed my lack of relationship experience (and life experiences for that matter) at my age torpedoes any possible connection between me and women my age. Never been married, no kids, not dating...since women focus on family, love and making connections, but talking to me about those things (that are conversation starters for 90% of people our age) I got nothing to lob back in a conversation, so I often say nothing at all. However, change the subject to something else I can talk about, and I’m actually confident, talkative and expressive. I won’t stop talking lol. I love talking about building my business, boats/boating, travel etc.  

I see your posts and that you have a great sense of humor. You seem to be light hearted and fun. I imagine that’s why these specific type of socially awkward guys who appear to display a low energy and are introverted enjoyed ‘your’ company. I think in a way they hook up an emotional hose to you and syphon the energy from you if that makes sense? Again I’m totally guessing, but since guys that don’t get a lot of play are often misunderstood by both men and women who don’t have any problems getting their needs met, I thought I’d share that perspective.

 

 

Located in a favorite touring locations mine. He read that I was a foodie so our first encounter he booked a 4hr lunch date and picked a very popular Michelin star restaurant for lunch. There was ZERO chemistry because he was extremely awkward socially and conversation consisted of me saying something and him returning a one or two word answer. I was thinking the date was a bust, then back in the room without others around conversation was casual and more fluid. Physical connection bordered on fantastic.

He sees me every time I’m in town, always for 4-12 hrs, and even after roughly 10 visits...the experience is always the same. Awkward publically, enjoyable privately. But he keeps booking longer encounters with that awkward public time included.

At the end of the day, he raved about it afterward.

That’s a win!

The dates are meant to be after the session.  I do not recommend eating before due to feeling sluggish and bogged down by food in stomach.  Recently, and I hope to do it again soon, asap, I took my new sugar baby to Canes.  Highly recommended I just ordered coleslaw and we shared a 4 finger plate due to her not being able to eat very much due to being skinny.  This is a benefit of thin girls as opposed to bbws in that they usually cost less and I don't mind buying food for young thin women.  

...... 4 years ago. I was chose poorly, there wasn't going to be chemistry at all.
Since then, I have played with some of the most amazing women that I have ever met.  
I go back because because I enjoy these women's personality, looks and skill. For me personality is first.  

Thank you ladies

That I only see gentlemen that are my age or older. While it doesn't mean there will be spot on chemistry 100% of the time; the chances are far greater.

Can dates suck for us guys too?  

Of course, it happens frequently, never sure what exactly the provider is expecting me to be.  Sometimes I hit it off and no awkwardness and other times its total weird vibes and trying to go with the flow is painful especially when you could likely be spending more than usual...

Sometimes I feel like a should just go buy a rubber doll from some of these "experiences"  

Sexbots are slowly getting better and better too lol