Hello Ladies,

I'm a "Safety Guy". I only do CBJ's and unfortunately I won't do DATY. However, I do love to make the ladies happy. I will use toys, lotion, and my FIV technique I've been told is pretty damn good. I did come across some ladies on my last visit to your beautiful city who said either they didn't or had never done CBJ's. There are also many girls who don't like FIV.  

I try to double check on both before setting up a date. I'm glad, in some cases, TER makes it easy to find ladies who ONLY do CBJ, but there are some who do BBBJ who won't do a CBJ. I also usually bring flavored hats to make it more palatable.  

I do wish I knew which ladies considered themselves "experts" at the CBJ.  

At any rate, I'll be visiting again in 3 weeks and plan on a buffet of treats in the 4 days I'll be there. I have a list of strong candidates all ready prepared and I continue to peruse the boards. It aint easy with all the fine choices. I come from a small twon where the choices are highly limited, so when I have the chance to visit the Big City "on my own" I plan on taking advantage.  

I'll be happy to listen to suggestions from Pros and Hobbyists.  I usually stick to the $$-$$$ range unless I see something I just can't miss ($$.5 is my sweet spot).

And I have a toy that works every time! I don't think any lady would turn you away for wanting to be safe

CBJ is no issue at all - But 'ya know what is? The taste of those nasty hats.. If you prefer CBJ, I would definitely suggest bringing flavored hats. - The lady will love you for it

What is wrong with being safe & wanting to avoid extra risk?

 
Nada

 
Nothing!  Your my kind of gentlemen.

In my opinion, there is nothing wrong with "safety"... In this day an age being cautious it a key to pleasure, for both parties involved.  

Safe travels
kat

.....if you're awesome at a bbbj then how hard can giving a great cbj be (or vice-versa)? It's in your techniques and skill.  

I don't dislike "safety"/cbj only guys and will respect their wishes. HOWEVER I do prefer bbbj because I like taste and feel of skin on my face, lips and tongue. If a guy mentions he prefers cbj after we've set something up or doing the date...it's cool.  

About FIV I don't like it because it doesn't feel good to me however I do like toys and my mound & clit being massaged/played with (combined with kissing and/or breast play).

Unfortunately technique can't always compensate. At least not in my experience. I simply can't really feel a CBJ. BBBJ is pretty much my favorite thing though. Oddly so far in my limited experience doing this the best ones I have had have been from some of the younger providers. Some of them really get how to stimulate without resorting to just face fucking.

I have always offered Cbj and I love a man who is good with his fingers

Hmmmm...I lika the BBBJ, but can't do the FIV fo sho. I'm a carpenter and always have nicks and cuts on my finger and hands. Not good for either party. I would love to, but no.