Racist alert.  Looking to see her, thought she had some pretty pictures.  Told me to come over in about an hour.  Called her as I was getting closer to her locations.  She asked me how old was I, then she asked me was I black.  Then said, I dont see or do black guys.  We all have our own preference, but maybe you should state that in your ad so black guys dont call.  Or is she afraid to be label as the racist she is....just my opinion.

By the way, I am a very well know hobbiest...with lots of reviews on TER.  Ever provider that I have ever met would say that I am pleasure to be around.

I have good success off of craiglist in the past

I'm sorry that happened to you... your so right
something should be stated up front, sure would have saved you and others of time not to mention how it made you feel.

I wonder why she waited to ask your age (maybe that was her way of getting to the other question)

I really feel bad for you "wonderful back gentlemen" when something like this happens.

Kisses
Terri

another reason why some girls dont see black guys is because their pimps dont allow them too.

She may have any kind of personal reasons for not seeing a certain kind of person.  I say that because a very good friend of mine refuses to see any Oriental men because she was molested by a trusted Oriental man as a child.

I'm not saying she is right.  What I am saying is that this is a HIGHLY intimate and personal encounter and there are just some ladies with issues where they know the guy will have more fun if he sees another lady.  
While it does appear to be that way, it does not necessarily mean she is a racist.

Remember that there are plenty of other ladies who would welcome and enjoy your company!

you guys are right.  By the way, i have seen all of you.  Mya you are wonderful, lucy you were wonderful, and Roxanne you made my birthday wonderful about 2 years ago.

I was pissed because I waited all that time.  I would rather her to be upfront but oh well.  I just did not like the fact I told her that I could give reference and also mention my rep.  But she does not do black men, but i guess that is her perference.

Too many other more beautiful fish (on the INSIDE as well as outwardly) in the sea.
Don't give it a second thought.
Her problem-Her loss.

I am constantly amazed when we try to put EEO standards on this business.
Black,White Old or Young-a provider shouldn't have to be politically correct with such an intimate service

Hmmm, BIGGEEP, Sheika Fatima knows you must be a dear, sweet, sensitive man to be concerned about such an issue. This is quite an interesting side bar to the hobby. Is it not? As I’ve said before, I’m not one to provide answers, but I do have a lot of stories that stem from experience from both inside and outside the hobby. These stories are reality. I’m not being political. I’m not taking a stand. I’m just stating the way things are… Whether you were turned down for policy reasons, as your post seems to indicate; or for something else is really moot. It is moot because it doesn’t jive with the realities of the business…

Now, it is not uncommon for perspective clients to seek out a provider that has a specific body type or a certain ethnic identity. Some say that variety is the spice of life!! However, few perspective clients consider the converse; that being: It is not uncommon for some providers to specialize in providing services to clients with-shall we say-a certain type of ethnic or cultural identity.

There are some white providers who specialize in “doing” black Guys; and, there are some black providers who specialize in “doing” white guys. There are some providers who specialize in elderly clients, and there are some providers who work with the grossly obese or physically challenged…

Now, I know of a white provider in this area who specializes in “doing” Arabs and their friends. The same provider also has a couple of regular clients who are very young, very wealthy, very immature spoiled Asian college students-they play video games on their lap-tops and get loaded-really, hee, hee .  However, this same provider very rarely does black guys (she uses the word chocolate…)

In addition, I think it pertinent to note, that providers develop a list of preferred or repeat clients-I’m sure you know this... Now, I suppose it might be possible-if not probable-that some liberated, politically correct lady might relish the idea of developing a list of clients that stretches the bounds of diversity; but, the business demands and the harsh reality of the escorting life make this impractical. Regardless of what you might wish to think, escorting is all about money and survival and keeping straight with the Man. Maybe if you offered to pay double what the lady was asking, she-or her manager or her pimp or her whatnot-might have reconsidered. Who knows? In any event, the reality of escorting is that it is unregulated. It is illegal. And, the ladies promote themselves the best way they can considering the realities of the business. I’m sorry you were offended. Please don't hold it against Heather… PEACE.

Sheika Fatima    


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GREAT AND HONEST ANSWER!!! Sorry about that Heather. Sorry about that BIGGEEP. But, it is true. It is really true. Lucy’s answer is great and honest and true!

Regardless of what clients wish to believe, the reality of escorting, the TRUE business reality of “Rent-a-Lady” for your fun, fantasy and pleasure is quite different from what most clients like to imagine.

It is not always the provider who: chooses the clients, or sets the rates, or screens the calls, or answers the e-mail, or arranges the out calls, or hold the lease on the in call, or owns the car, or gets the money. It is usually some guy or a lose consortium of unrelated guys that control these aspects of a provider’s life. These characters very rarely take the heat. They are always lurking behind the scenes.  However, it is the provider who gets raped, robbed, arrested, jailed, blackmailed, knocked around and run out of Dodge. While the sleaze-ball, scum-bag parasites get rich.

What a business… What a life…

PEACE,
Sheika Fatima

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