I guess there is an advantage to having a few regular "friends" in the hobby. At this point, I do not. Life has been hectic at many levels for about 6 months.

BUT - while I have hobbied a while, I find my tastes have changed. And needs as I get older have shifted. Or perhaps I have always been this way and denied it. Whatever.

There is quite a difference in a guy being "into" a lady versus the lady being into the guy. Meaning, ladies kinda get pawed over (In my experience). Guys get attacked

Imagine an alternate universe where the lady "cuddles" with the man. Is affectionate in the way that someone who cares about you would be. Building a connection of warmth. Holding the man.

So ladies - who is a "snuggler" out there? Who is naturally nurturing (no offense to anyone - as this is all nurturing, but I am referring to compassion, touch, smiles)? I don't want to be "dominated" during a session. Or called daddy. Or have a PSE. I am not interested in the type of session I would watch online. Or read in an adult novel.

It starts out with chemistry for sure - you can't force that sensation or connection. The body senses it. That type of connection makes the other (as brief as it might be), so much better. I get the conversation in the beginning (the standard 20 minutes of chit chat that ocurrs trying to build some of that) - but my experience has been it is not "natural" for most providers to get to that point even in a 2nd session. In which case, while I have done several to try and get there, and I have not found "it".

There is the obvious - "is it me? or them" - which is why this post. Do you find that with some clients and not others? How long does it take to get there? And yea, I am feeling that need...

Curious...