ON several reference checks I have had conflicting information on clients , one might say oh he's kinda rough and bites , the second provider says he a great guy and did not have that experience or let's say one might say he kisses like a lizard and the next says he kisses just fine....or maybe he smokes right before a session and if you do not want to DFK with a smoker that is useful infomation, but  the truth is references are mostly used to keep use safe from LE the extra info we might share is are own personal views and one must consider the sourse and the ymmv factor....although I have never been to the providers board I have heard some of the stories and it is somewhat biased in some cases ....due to a PERSONAL problem with a client and needs to be taken with a grain of salt.....

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I agree whole heartedly Victoria

Now that's what I call flying first class those ladies are beautiful ....hope you doing well Rose

BTW - don't believe the stories about me on the provider board.  I'm actually a nice pimp! lol

Hope to visit Poon Valley soon.

i've never critiqued a guy's sexual performance in a reference.
it would be a pointless waste of time since the information is not only subjective but completely irrelevant to whether or not a guy is a good client.
 

What you're saying is true, references are used for our safety, however we must make sure we keep certain things to ourselves.  In forwarding on references on to other providers I feel it should be kept short and sweet.  Yes they are nice, he's been a good client, or in a few unfortunate instances, I'm not going to see him again, when I go to clear someone over the phone or email.  We should all try and keep the personal opinions to ourselves and use the screening process for its basic purpose.  Now maybe someday they will have a rating system on TER for clients!  Just kidding!

I've only bitten one  (ok two) person(s) and it wasn't all THAT hard!!   And the tongue thing...that's just a nervous twitch.

i think we owe it to our clients to be concerned about their likes and dislikes.

for instance, if a guy likes very much to give oral, i'll probably mention it to her.

i certainly agree that personal opinions are irrelevant but i wouldnt consider it a privacy violation to show some professional consideration to ensure the clients happiness.

and she might like the nervous tongue twitch.

depending where the tongue is twiching , now that could be an asset.....twitch away oh yeah

..the PROVIDER RULES!!!  Bottom line.  This is not Wal-Mart vs Target as it relates whether or not they will sell their wares to you!!  The Provider RULES!!..  has TOTAL COMMAND of her goods and services.  Do we hobbiests sometimes get frustrated...absolutely!!  But again, the PROVIDER RULES!!!!

Look, the activity we engage in is questionable in the eyes of society in general.  Deal with it.
I'm in private enterprise and my references are checked by most all my clients.  Sometimes I lose out because of mis-information or simply a mis-interpretation  of the information.  OK, that's life.  I move on.

While not exactly the same issue, look at some of the reviews for the ladies.  YMMV!!!!!!  I can single out one local lady who recently went independent and her reviews are all over the scale!!!  That's life.  

I'm a newbie hobbiest, but a long time TER member.  Now that I've finally had some fun, I am comfortable with my decision.  I've been fortunate in having made a few friends and feel confident I will always have a good experience, but there is NO GUARANTEE in this hobby.

These are my opinons and are not necessarily the opinions of this ISP!!

Have a wonderful day!!