Using an alias because I'm embarrassed to ask if it is OK to ask for this or does it turn off the providers.  Same thing about asking the provider to rim.  I also hesitate to ask for toys.  I may be perverted but I enjoy it.  Input would be appreciated.

Any provider worth her weight will not have to be asked to perform a nice prostate massage, she'll in fact ask you if you'd like to try it! That's how I am, anyhow and I'm worth a few times my weight! hehe

Megan

PS I don't rim, though, sorry.

You didn't ask me!!

Just keep in mind that a provider does bear at least a slightly higher degree of risk if she offers you that service.  In particular, some providers will only do this with a cover on the hand or finger.  (Apparently an infection under an acrylic fingernail can be a very nasty thing.) As always, respect for the lady's boundaries will help you get many things you enjoy!