Good morning everyone~ Several months ago I took a break, but now I'm back and would like to ensure that from now on, my appointments aren't just 'good' or mediocre, but the best they can possibly be. So I'm asking for your help, both guys & gals...Guys: What are the main, say, top 3, things a provider can do for you to ensure you leave with a smile on your face, giving you definite intent to return? Girls: What are the top 3 things during an appointment you've found to be most effective when you want to make certain the customer repeat? Thanking you all in advance for your help, Kacie 
1. Focus - put away computers, cell phones, and make it all MY time. Not yours. No texting. No even pulling the phone out once you are together. Use your phone when I leave or you leave. This is my time. I want to be your everything 
2. Balance - there is a certain amount of aggressiveness and timid needed. Learn to read that. Do not waste a lot of time in "idle" mode. Let me know you "like" me and let's have fun. This is part art and science.
3. Mood - be in the mood or convince me you are. Caring is giving the other person what they need. That goes many directions.
If someone likes your price point and you do the above (among other things, but limited to 3), you probably wil get repeats.
Other stuff.. be sensual and leave them wanting more. Be sweet and smile. Be clean. Be easy to reach for a second appointment. Be sweet (wait, I am repeating)...
Far and away #1: Put your phone on silent in the other room. No need to turn it off, just put on silent. That way you can still see your missed calls after I leave, but it won't disturb our time together. Silent doesn't mean vibrate as that gets your attention just as much as a ring.
#2: A big, warm smile when you open the door is the simplest way to get off on the right foot. Sounds easy, but I've had a few instances, where I was welcomed without a smile and it wasn't the same.
#3: Have fun. If I sense that you are having fun, I tend to have even more fun than you are.
Pretty simple stuff as far as what I want and expect. However, I can't even explain how much it annoys me when a girl doesn't have the foresight to observe #1.
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1. Focus - put away computers, cell phones, and make it all MY time. Not yours. No texting. No even pulling the phone out once you are together. Use your phone when I leave or you leave. This is my time. I want to be your everything
2. Balance - there is a certain amount of aggressiveness and timid needed. Learn to read that. Do not waste a lot of time in "idle" mode. Let me know you "like" me and let's have fun. This is part art and science.
3. Mood - be in the mood or convince me you are. Caring is giving the other person what they need. That goes many directions.
If someone likes your price point and you do the above (among other things, but limited to 3), you probably wil get repeats.
Other stuff.. be sensual and leave them wanting more. Be sweet and smile. Be clean. Be easy to reach for a second appointment. Be sweet (wait, I am repeating)...
Great answers justdone. I like the way you think. I'd like to add one more thing, be like a G/F. Make me feel like I'm the only guy for you.
I have seen Kacie, multiple times, and you do do some of those things already.
Good luck,
Vampy the Red Nosed Hobbiest
Thanks you guys, and Vampy, I hope to see you again sometime soon, you're cooler than the other side of the pillow Keep the responses coming plz!
1. Lose the cell phone. As others have said, it's just rude to check it when you're entertianing a guest.
2. In bed, keep it real. Lose the theatrics, the fake moaning. Big turn off for guys. But on the other hand, don't just lay there in silence. If you're naturally very vocal, be yourself. If you're not vocal by nature, dont be who you aren't. if you like something, say it. Be yourself. The fake moaner is just as bad as the girl who lays there like she's dead. I understand often you won't be attracted to your guest and will have to "pretend" but just dont go overboard.
3. Don't book when you're having a bad day. Feeling down? Cramps? Don't book! You won't enjoy the session and your guest sure as hell won't. Only book a date when you're feeling upbeat, positive, and in a friendly mood.
Thanks everyone for your advice and support, it definitely will be put to good use I welcome any and all suggestions provided. You guys are wicked cool to take the time to offer your thoughts on the subject, I really appreciate it.
Contacting gents you've seen about why they gave you 9/10s versus other gents with much lower scores. I am not trying to be an @$$hole I swear, but your scores are inconsistent. So much so that it can't be explained by YMMV. This is a business, and like any other, sometimes a poll of your clientele can reveal a lot. Although honest feedback is hard to come by, what little you can get will be priceless.
The answers to your questions will vary just as the personalities of your Clients. Bottom line, what makes a great GFE? Is it a specific act? Or is it a specific attitude? Or the so often hackneyed expression, "chemistry."
For me, just as another Hobbyist answered, make me feel like I'm the only guy in the planet for the time we're together. Don't let anything spoil the illusion; phones, choice of venue, bad day leading up to our time together. It is a business, and you have every right to refuse service to whomever you please, but if you do choose to see me, then make the illusion happen!
1. Kiss me tenderly
2. Enjoy yourself or convince me you're enjoying yourself
3. Pamper me.
Just like a restaurant, I may cook a better steak at home, but at Ruth Cris I don't need to do the dishes or slave in the kitchen. Instead, I get served!
Kudos to you for trying to improve your "customer service!"
Hi Kacie......we have never met. I am impressed that you have posed this question to improve yourself as a person and for marketability. The hobbyist and providers that have responded have given you excellent feedback. I hope that you look at them critically and with an open mind. Aside from all the great suggestions made please remember this is a fantasy for us and we remember the "experience". That experience starts from the first contact to the smile when we leave. For example the Apple Corporation is successful not only for their products but for the "experience " we perceive and enjoy. By taking this initiative I see you want to be responsible for a better experience. Now you can create your own signature. Best wishes!
I feel that my #1 thing would be connection, or chemistry. My time is very limited, so I choose to spend it wisely. I recommend attending a M&G to introduce yourself to the community, and interview potentials for future sparks. If this is not in the cards for you I totally understand privacy.
#2 Read his previous reviews.
#3 Converse. Find out what makes the man loco!
* If you like, girls, then having a friend helps too. xoxo
Every gentleman is so different than the next, so what I do for one might not work for another.
I would say just ask him, but some guys like girls who take charge and need no direction.
I would say keep and open mind and don't fall into a pattern. That works best for me.
Also, masturbating before an appointment makes me horny as hell. That helps.
Kisses,
Vanica
Keep it clean yourself your incall or home clients need to feel safe and when they walk into a new place it should look like he is the only person that has been there that is a part of the fantasy ...no wet towels no wrappers no empty booze bottles no messy bed..... that bed should look like its been fleshly made for HIM .....go the extra mile with nice amenities mouth wash deodorants....clean glasses ect.....have options on things to drink have bottled water or sodas to go if they want ...Bring your A Game each time and you will hit a home run ! The rest of the stuff you can do do is just common sense your clients will lead you if you let them good luck....attitude is also key be happy to see them remember they chose YOU out of all their choices respect goes a long way along with a thank you for coming !
Hi Kacie
So in order to answer your question better, I went back and read all of your reviews. As you stated, most of the reviews are good but not great. So based on that here would be my suggestions
1. Photo accuracy - some stated that photos were slightly old. I believe the photos should be within last couple of years
2. That time of the month - most of us want to know this up front, not when we get to the appointment
3. "We got undressed and she mentioned she hates it when a guy shoves his tongue down her throat when kissing. I never bothered kissing her since she didn't seem to want it." We all understand that we have likes and dislikes but maybe better way to approached this was by saying that you prefer sensual kisses. Personally I would not repeat if a provider did not enjoy kissing me
4. Smoking. I personally don't smoke. Having said that I also don't mind providers who smokes. What I mind is you smelling and tasting like a ash tray. Please brush your teeth and use a mouth rinse
Following is what I personally look for
1. great attitude. I understand that this is a job for you, but understand that this is a fantasy date for me. In my dreams, I do not fantasize about a hot bitchy girl with poor attitude
2. low volume. I rather spend extra $ to meet a lady who enjoys herself and not be completely worn out.
3. Thanks to Deanna, I am realizing that I prefer longer appointments.
4. rest of it should be intuitive - be clean, if incall - no messes, be professional, respect one another, be in the moment, please turn off your cell phone
Agree with all of the input above. I would add improved punctuality. When one is busy, and we all are to some degree, to arrive at the appointment, call the provider and then be kept waiting for 15 minutes or half an hour is a real downer. Especially if the delay turns out to be because the provider needed a nicotine fix. If the time does not work, let us know and we can adjust.
