Hi all.

I recently changed jobs and now work in center city.  I have been looking for a lady to become a regular with.  The one who I thought would work out unfortunately disappeared / stopped advertising about 2 weeks ago and has not returned my call.

I have monitored the various sites and reached out to a couple ladies.  In fact, yesterday (2/25) I had seen an ad of a lovely young Asian lady, but when I got there, she was an African American which is fine but the experience with her was creepy and she admitted to lying in her ads.  I posted a review and waiting for that to get approved.  She unfortunately did not have a review here and I took a chance.

I'm looking for a lady who I can meet at least once a month in center city.  I would like her to be in good shape.  Sorry, but I am not into BBW.  I would like her to be 5'6" or shorter.  Race does not matter to me as long as you do not lie about it.

I have seen a lot of ads for ladies on the edges of Philly, but I am specifically looking in center city as I work there.  I'm near the Comcast building.

If you could be her, please let me know.  In the meantime, I will continue to monitor the ads.

I've too been searching for that elusive local provider who suits my needs and once you get beyond the top 5 who say they're home based on Philly, it falls off remarkably.  

Look at the top 5 on the TER home page.  Victoria is a nationally rated top 50 provider and is amazing,  but only in calls in SJ. Don't pass her up if you can get over there sometime. True star.

Mel Benson is also great and new to be based here in Philly, but is only really in town 4-5 days a month at best. She is constantly on the road for her IRL work. But, if you can see her, don't miss her.  

I hear wonderful things about Miranda H and she does keep a regular in call in CC.  I plan on seeing her soon, but I have two friends who have seen her and they say don't miss her, she's a real gem.  

Amber Leigh is another well known and highly regarded local provider that I too am trying to organize a meeting with, soon!

These are the top ones that I know personally, or have heard from reputable sources. If you PM me and give me a feel for more what you're looking for and budget, I can be more helpful.  I know of several visitors who are frequently here, almost more than some of the girls who claim Philly to be their base.

plenty of women who frequent Philly and are in CC. I guess you just have to know how and where to find them. Quite honestly once a month is a no brainer, even 3x a month is, as long as everyone's schedules sync and there's enough notice, I don't think it matters where she is coming from (or he for that matter).  

I don't live around the corner and I've already been to the city twice this last month and will be there in another week as well. I am honestly puzzled by what the problem is in this neck of the woods but the guys who know how to hunt for us, certainly find us. There may not be a ton of ladies that visit the city but certainly a wide enough selection to savor any man's appetite. And most can become a regular if you tell yourself she can be.  

She doesn't need to be 2 blocks away to make it work...just sayin'. I wish you luck in your Philly endeavors. Stay positive, there are fab women everywhere.  

xx T

-- Modified on 2/26/2015 5:22:29 PM

She is a fitness instructor, incredible body, sweet as hell and under 5'6". Well reviewed here and I think she still offers  regular C.C. incall. Great girl. Very sexy.

Lsmjd is spot on. I have seen both Miranda Haroun and Amber Leigh both of whom have permanent in call locations in CC. Both are terrific. Miranda is Indian and Amber is a Cali blonde.

What did you mean when you say you are puzzled by the problem in Philly? What problem are you referring to? Thanks.

Is she still providing?

Maybe she or one of her regulars can chime in?

She is busy with RW activities and has reduced her schedule so much that even her regs wait in long lines, so I am told.

Maybe problem wasn't the correct word. Sorry for that. How about the common thread I have seen with Philly in general instead. Guys in and around Philly (in my experience) seem to not know where to find women therefore they book the same 5 or 6 women here over and over again hoping for new play partners but can't seem to find them or want to find them I guess. I'm just wondering why that is when there are clearly other providers advertising in the same area to choose from as well.  

It's my perception over time now in watching the Philly market there seems to be quite a closed circuit for the regular guys here on TER who seem to not want to veer outside of that circle. I've personally advertised in many cities but primarily, NYC and Philly now and it's kind of unreal how both markets are completely different on so many different levels and the thought process behind it on all accounts. Especially being only an hour away. It's like in all of the country, Philly is a bird all it's own lol. I guess I'm just puzzled by it and the close-mindedness of it all and I have no idea why that is. It's like the area won't let outsiders in or something and I find it kind of bizarre. I'm sure I'm not the only provider here who has advertised in different markets that sees this kind of thing either here in Philly.  

I guess I've been lucky (and thankful) that the guys who have sought me out around the area here aren't reviewers but are/have been p411 members. Some are, some aren't. And a few (some of my favs ) I actually found them While they typically don't post, they do lurk lol and essentially will seek and play 'outside' of this box. I guess I'm just wondering why Philly guys on this forum are seemingly only 'inside' the box. That's all. Nothing wrong with it, I just don't understand it I guess. Especially when they come on here not claiming to find anyone different or new and keep asking the same questions over and over again. It's puzzling to me.  

Hope that somewhat answers your question AJ. I've got my few fav clients here, so I'm good, that's all I need, but off to NYC/NJ I go again lol. I do wish you Philly guys luck though. And those 5 or 6 ladies must be exhausted LOL. So I wish them luck too. It's a great city with some great guys that's for sure. But open your mind a bit Philly..........it's ok. This is for all the ladies who aren't the regular 5 or 6 here. There are a bunch. Give them a chance too is all I'm sayin'.  

Toodles~

T xx

There are only 3 girls in Philly with a rating above a 9. There are 35 or so in NYC. That's almost 12 times as many.

And from what I understand, those 3 Philly girls have very limited availability. As someone else pointed out, Melaniee Benson just moved here from NYC but is constantly on tour and rarely in the city. Many NYC ladies are just outside of a 9 rating. Again in Philly, it is very few.

Now I would concede that the ratings aren't perfect and certainly not the be all and end all, but it gives us something to compare/contrast.

So if the guys in Philly do stick to 5 or 6 girls primarily, I can see why. Thanks for sharing your thoughts Taylor.

not on any level. They are two totally different markets. I was just using it as an example here on how different the mentality piece is, which is what puzzles me. Not the market. Guys are still guys, girls are still girls no matter where you reside.

But you lost me completely on this only three girls with a rating of 9 or higher. I really don't pay attention to the ratings piece nor do I understand it, so you'll have to excuse my oblivious notion of it. I'm literally just shy a 9, so does that mean girls on my scale are chopped meat lol? While it makes absolutely no difference to me, I'm just trying to understand where you all are coming from, that's all and why you say there are only 3.  But this is exactly why I don't honor this stuff anymore. It's kind of pointless in my opinion.

Its funny, my last appointment in Philly, the gentleman I was with and I talked about this very thing. He's a pretty big UTR player here who found me on p411 and he took the time out to explain it to me. And as I looked at him with a third eye and giggled, he did say...ratings are just ratings, and I'll leave it at that. Being hung up on a number is quite honestly just a lil silly, don't ya think? I think you guys are missing out on some pretty fabulous women under this 9 scale you breathe by. That's my only point to all of this really. I've seen it now for well over a year and I'm convinced. There is no changing the mentality of PA in general. It is what it is and the people who live there. And for that reason...I'm out lol.

Go off the grid a little bit you never know what kind of treats you can find...NYC guys do it all the time and you are right their selection is 12 times higher. But New York City is also the toughest, most competitive market in the country. There is absolutely no comparison on any level, on any scale. However, I have to believe the mentality of this game is still the same, no matter where you are. You're still all men last time I checked aren't ya lol...I don't think that's any different.  

Philly is stuck in the box...you said it yourself...so my recommendation is to breathe outside of it at least a lil bit, or get out of it all together. To go from now what I thought was 5 or 6 top rated women to now only 3...Wow that's a bit ridiculous. They must have the golden pussy myth I've heard so much about lol. Anyhow, I think if you gentlemen can allow yourselves to go there, outside the box that is, your odds may just get a little higher, one never knows. And as always, that can be a really good thing.

3 shiny apples on top of the bunch will always get picked first. It's those who don't like to select what everybody else will be and enjoy reaching under them who may just pick the shiniest...and sweetest lol

But maybe that's why you 'think' you only have 3 to choose from. And perhaps that's why women don't stay and play here. Just sayin'......

I wish you luck picking Philly!!!!!

T xx

(Thanks AJ...always a pleasure whoever you are lol.)

-- Modified on 2/27/2015 4:21:29 AM

The feedback I was providing was related to the girls who "based" themselves in Philly, per TER's system.  I also said there are great regular visiting ladies who'd I'd be happy to PM with him on based on my experience.  So, to Taylor's point, yes, there are many amazing women who often frequent Philly once or twice a month and they're not to be missed.  I was just trying to give him a few opinions of the locally based ladies.  

We're all grateful that excellent providers  come her often to liven up the local scene

I get that LSMJD, but locally or visiting is irrelevant in my opinion. Unless you have the deep wallet and you expect to see her every other day lol, which I don't believe is the case in most instances.

Again, I don't understand the difference if she's 2 blocks away or 2 hours away if she still makes all appointments. That's my point.  

And what if all this time she actually was a 'local' but may have advertised elsewhere for personal reasons whilst throwing a bone here every now and then...but only getting a few bites because of this mentality. Then what lol..........

Exactly. It doesn't matter. Philly primarily is only interested in seeing 'local' ladies who they 'think' live around the corner. Always will be that way. It's very rare they will veer outside of that box. I just have no idea why. That will never change for the majority of players 'here'. And without change...well, you know how that goes. Anyhoo, it's been fun chatting. I do hope you guys here can somehow expand your minds a bit to other ladies who offer a lot as well. There are a bunch. So this is for them.  

T xx -- Modified on 2/27/2015 4:41:34 AM

You may want to give Alexandra a call. I think she is pretty close to the Comcast building?

Definitely not CC

I'm all for expansion, if you look at my reviews and white listings, you'll see that I'm an equal opportunity hobbyist. Most ladies I see, in fact, are not the regular Philly ladies, but exceptional touring ladies, some who come often, some only two or three times. I hope we can meet up at some point.

Cheers,
L.

-- Modified on 2/27/2015 7:55:13 AM

What are you actually saying? That clients in Philly are closed minded? I for one have seen both locally based providers as well as the touring pros of which there are many. Locally based providers with their own incall locations in CC have the advantage of more discretion as to access.  It can be nerve racking (or exhilarating) to visit either local or visiting providers in public hotels in your home city. The challenge is to get in and out of these hotels without bumping into someone who know you, especially in those hotels that have key card entry for the elevators.

BTW, what is up with your TER profile as to your personal and ad websites?

Thank you for the responses.  All of you.

I am fairly new to the center city Philly scene.  I have monitored the usual ad sites for about a month and actually found a young lady who we hit of with.  Actually, it was her and her friend as they were providing 2 for 1 at the time.

They were both amazing and it was actually the friend’s first time.  They wanted to stay in touch and meet regularly.  However, they had an argument and separated.  The friend is not in the business.  The main lady was in the business, I had met her a second time.  She was getting into visiting other PA areas.  However, she disappeared shortly after our second meeting and has not return the 2 messages I left her.  She may have been arrested for all I know.  So, I am back on the market.

I am not locked on the idea of only seeing a local lady.  Yes, I believe that may be easier, but someone who visits on a regular is fine.  I will say that I am not willing to pay $1,000 (or even $500) to see someone who is visiting though.  I’m also not looking to pay $100 as that is not the level of lady I am looking for either.

As for the distance, I work in center city, and would like to be able to walk to the lady.  Or at the “worst” take MFL or BSL to her.  This is mainly because I do not drive into the city.  I am not looking for someone at the airport or NE Philly as they are further than I want to go based on where I work and live.  If I was able to find a nice lady visiting King of Prussia or even Pottstown (either side of where I live), I would consider her as I would drive to them before or after work.

I am very particular about the lady focusing on 3 things.  
Personality – being able to talk and discuss ideas, open to texting to let me know when available, and having an upbeat attitude.  
Height – 5’ 6” or under.  I’m 5’ 10” so I am not short.  I have always like woman shorter than me.  It is just my thing.
Body – She has to be in good shape and care for herself.  I go to the gym every morning to keep myself in shape and healthy.  I like the lady to look good in tight clothing.  Tattoos and piercings are cool and even hot on some ladies, but being out of shape is a turn off.

When I did the original post, I am not sure what I expected the result to be.  I read every comment and checked out the various ladies mentioned.  I have some ideas and need to think some of my expectations.

Again thank you for taking the time to respond.

Absolutely L. Looking forward to it.  

My posts are only to get people thinking and expand their horizons. That's all. And I think everyone could agree, Philly needs it. It has the potential to be a really great place for both parties here, but lacks in the same.  

That's my only point to all of this

No worries. I certainly hope the gentleman in question got something from all of this as well as perhaps a few others who are mindlocked into thinking local is the only way to go, cause it's not. Even if she is 'local' but advertises farther away lol.  

T xx

-- Modified on 2/27/2015 7:18:18 AM

there is a point in there somewhere. Sorry, was a bit wordy this morning. I wake up at the crack of dawn and my mind is always filled with 'ideas'....so for that I apologize

From my experience, yes, on the average I have found Philly guys can be a bit on the closeminded circuit compared to some other places on the grid. Just how I see it and that's my opinion. All you have to do is look at the review system here and see who keeps getting the same reviews over and over again vs someone new popping up. It's not rocket science Sam. Philly is an interesting place. I will agree, it's not as 'free' as NYC as far as bumping into someone. But with a lil care and extra caution, it's fine. If you are worried about that...then don't play in the city. Problem solved.  

As far as you...I wouldn't know anything about you or who you partake in here, how would I? You are posting with an alias sir. So this discussion is kind of null and void as far as that is concerned.  

My TER profile is just that. A bunch of reviews and a #. If you've followed my posts, those who know and want to find me...can. Again, that's not rocket science either I'm afraid. I'm here, just not here.  

T xx

To paint with such a broad brush that "Philly guys can be a bit on the closeminded circuit" seems to be self defeating and lacks any real understanding and perspective.  

You are basing that on meeting 10 guys? 20? In an area of 5 million people or so?  

Maybe you think this will help endear you to the city in a way I am unaware? I cant imagine this would help you in any real way.

Maybe stereotyping is your thing? Never really works for me. Whether its gender based, race based, nationality based or "anything" based really, it is just an archaic view of the world and makes you come off as highly judgmental, in my humble opinion.

Just my 2 cents. Others may disagree. You enjoy your day Taylor.

And she's wonderful, as the other posters have said.  Sweet, naturally sexy/slutty and a great time in every way.  I'll see her again whenever I can and highly recommend.

-- Modified on 2/27/2015 12:37:09 PM

You should also try looking up Annalisa,Carly or Crystal.  These women have been on the scene for a while and they are reliable providers.  Also try Abby St. Claire she has been know to have an excellent reputation that would precede her as well.

I read and reread your posts on this subject and I still don't know what you are saying. Also you ramblings about my alias and hotels also is nonsense. You seem to have totally missed the point of my question about your website, which was not intended to be hostile. You do not have a personal or ad website listed: its states "Report New Website URL." We have no idea what you look like. Do you expect guys to meet you sight unseen? In spite of what you think, nobody is going to jump through hoops to find you, especially with the attitude that you are demonstrating in these postings. My guess is that after this thread these "close minded" Philly guys will take a pass when it comes to you. I certainly will. Good luck

not sure why you are taking it that way. Simply one opinion from what I've witnessed and trying to understand it. Nothing more. Truly.  

I had a terrific day, I hope you did too.  

T xx

and no worries on all accounts. Truly.  

T xx

Taylor is actually quite well known and has posted pictures in the past.  Those Philly guys that want to meet her will.  As she stated...we know where to find her!

I host in center city at least 3-4 days a month. If you know the dates you will be there a few weeks in advance I could always adjust or plan my schedule to compliment yours. I am also quite close and available for outcalls some times as well as I live in Northern Delaware. I used to stay local all the time but I trabel 3-4 days a week typically.  Hope this might help!

I visit center city every 3 or 4 weeks.  as a matter of fact, i'll be there later this week

 i'm 5' 5", hwp, etc...
 check me out & if i fit the bill, i'd love to meet you

I have a discreetly located incall in a great Center City location. While I tour on occasion, Philly is home. I'd be happy to give you a warm welcome to Philadelphia.

xo,
Amber