Truth or dare
Hey guys help us out here I just declined a meeting with a gentleman due to the honesty  and sharing of information of his previous provider.  Now here is the kicker she absolute loved the guy had great things to say about him. He is handsome generous and talented.!! Wow who don’t want to meet a guy like that? Well he is also way to big and aggressive for me. I am so grateful she let me know, the session would have been a nightmare for me physically and I doubt he would have been happy at the end of the day. The reason I post this is because to get so much info is not common.

So I’m  posting to let you all know and to ask please let your provider know if it’s ok to share basic and session info so that the lady does not get a surprise with   some thing  she can’t handle.  Usually I will receive a He’s safe responses to a request even when I ask …is there any thing you can share?

Also when giving a reference  I will give a lady a heads up on a client as to basic likes and dislikes. I have one person I see and he is a little aggressive but I can handle it  but some others  have gotten angry at him for being him self. I don’t think that’s fair to client or provider.
This is just a thought I’m not suggesting that any one should  change what they are comfortable with. I do think this would make it easier for the gentlemen to meet the ladies best suited to them and vise versa. And I  hope this helps  us all hobby happier. Cheers Livie.

first off... keep yourself safe! I totally understand why references are needed... and frankly I'm surprised more detail isnt shared. But then again... I understand too...

second. I say share everything you want. Frankly we wouldnt hesitate telling the most intimate of detail in a review for the whole world to see... why would back channel gossip or review not be ok?