i've met some really awesome guys the last few days, but have had 5 no-shows!  this is very unusual, ans i was forewarned....

input, anyone?

thx,
zOe

If you were forwarned, why would you post?  You have already been provided the answer to your question.

You were forewarned indeed.

Hi dont feel bad its happened to me as well and I  have to say literally 3 in one day!, now thats odd for me! no call or no show. I have a policy 2x's your out so they know it wont be tolerated. I have canceled as well so I do give some room for error shit happens sometimes and i understand that but 2x's YOUR OUT!, good luck, Lana

why belittle my intelligence?

i merely offered the topic up for discussion.

Ok, Ill have it for everyone....

First Poster - Guys we need to treat the ladies better than this....this is how they pay their bills.  Touring girls will stop coming to Philly if this keeps up.

Second Poster - The girls no show all the time, yet they complain when a guy does it to them.

There, done.

One time and you're out with me. I don't tolerate no calls/no shows unless the circumstance is with a very regular friend and it only happens once.

but even I think it drastict - but it do work, the lady in question asked me for another date after this... I declined...

Gents,

Let's differentiate ns/nc, which I agree with Bizsupdude is completely ungentlemanly and rude, and not being as serious to MAKE a provider appointment as we thought we were.

Sometimes all of our eyes are bigger than our stomaches, and we will make an appointment only to feel a bit less enthusiastic when the time comes for the appointment.

I felt this way just this week, as I had made an appointment with a VERY expensive (for me) touring girl. When I made the appointment, it was a function of me "treating" myself to an incredibly beautiful woman. But when the appointed time came closer. I had to face facts under uncomfortable examination that my budget really wasn't flexible enough to afford this level of treat (I DID call to cancel though).

I know...I know... If you can't afford it. Don't order it.  But sometimes in life we make decisions we find regrettable after we've made them. Who among us has never had buyers remorse?

I'm not even going to try to understand a provider nc/ns. That's just as rude and unprofessional. But only to try to bring up a possible explanation that I have noticed personally and may be applicable to other gents.

The bottom line.... It's just NOT ok to stand some one up. EVER. As disappointed as you are. You OWE a call to the person on thee other side of the phone.

My 2 cents

Alternatively... how would you as hobbyist feel if the provider requested a nominal ($100) deposit to hold your appointment?

Granted it depends on the Provider. An established girl with many very positive  reviews, say...

Would this deposit request keep you from booking an appointment?