I allow most anything, but the same people defecating on the same people CONSTANTLY has got to STOP.  Philly is NOT going to turn into the "Brown Showers" board!

If some of you can't be civil, I'll start moderating people. You KNOW who you are. There are 3-4 guys, and a couple of ladies that cause 95% of the problems. Enough already. Don't make me stick a 4th of July M-80 up someone's derriere!

Happy 4th a day early. Video is juvenile but funny!

Ah Fuzz Ball...just tell the bitchers, moaners, complainers and whiners to go fcuk themselves.  As fot the offending parties...hey, no one makes anyone read their posts do they?  This stuff really is childish shite.  People will fight and argue, but for others to get annoyed and file complaint...shite, that's just infantile!

Happy 4th a day early!

Again, as discussed in the thread below (Drama and Showboating), for some, even negative attention is better than no attention at all.  Much like dealing with children or employees who do stuff just to get your goat.

-- Modified on 7/3/2007 8:29:35 AM

Unfortunately Frankie, telling the bitchers, moaners, whiners, and complainers to fuck themselves just generates more pro and con responses and before long the thread is half a page long.  

It's been said before, and you'll see it on any board - if you don't like it, don't read it. True, but it's hard to ignore when it fills the computer monitor screen.  I do recall you posting on one of those long threads too so you must have read it and no, I am not criticizing. Ignoring is easier said than done.

Lastly, some of us are tired of having our time taken up during encounters with questions about the board like "What's up with so-and-so?" "Why is so-and-so that miserable?"  "What is up with that thread?" There's other things I'd rather be doing in sessions than getting questions like that.  And don't think for a minute this shit doesn't reflect on all of us.  Screening, references, phone numbers and oh yeah you're from Philly, are you one of the complainers?

No, Frankie, what is "shite" and infantile is public bashing, name calling, and attempts at humiliation. And that goes for both sides of the coin, not just one.

had a few providers recently ask me what the hell is up with the Philly board?? Apparantly some of the other boards don't have the back and forth hostilty we have seen here lately.. it is a reflection on all of us..  if we want to keep the talent coming in ..the treveling ladies check out the local boards  before touring..  its supposed to be about sex  not drama

Know what Lefty...I think you're right.  After reading your response, I reread my hastily written (no excuse, just fact) not very well thought out post and realized my approach, while gut-level appealing isn't really the right one.
Yes, there is a lot of sniping and fighting here, and sometimes I'm left scratching my head as to WTF is going on?  But, that's life...the good, the bad and the ugly.

My misdirected comment/reply was to the people who feel the need to complain to Phuzzmeister about all the fighting.  Just seems kinda school girl, tattle tale to me.  But I guess they feel that's their only recourse.

Anyways, thanks for your input, and while I still think moaning to the board mod is a bit over the top, I'll try to control my more visceral responses in the future.

And to all.....a Happy 4th of July holiday.  May we be blessed enough to celebrate with a bang!!!

Frankie

...you are a welcome addition here. All that you said in your post is completely understandable and at a gut level I agreed with what you wrote. I don't feel it was misdirected at all. But the same things have been said over and over and over (no offense to you) and here we still are, talking about it yet again rather than talking about the ladies or our experiences or sharing info. The good stuff gets pushed to page 2 and beyond by the personal BS.  And I am really not making it up - providers really do ask me what the hell is going on.

In my view, a mod can help set the tone for a board. I'm definitely not suggesting scrutinizing each and every post; just don't let this place become a free-for-all. And I will freely admit that I PMed Fuzzy on the issue. I can appreciate how you and probably others feel about it.  But, as you said, I felt it is the only recourse.  I don't want to become, or others to become, like those galaxy mentioned who are afraid to post or no longer are interested in posting about the hobby because it's being drowned out. That does all of us no good.

See you on the boards. And have a Happy 4th as well.

Dude,  
I care...
I notice
I love you, mannnn!!

This is what happens on the first offense
http://emuse.ebaumsworld.com/video/watch/1195

And this is what it's like when you are a repeat offender

http://www.videosift.com/video/7-Bottle-Rockets-1-Ass

Unfortunately 95% of the bitching and moaning is generated in response to only one of the local providers and we all know who that provider is!!!  Shut her down and the problem will go away.

Guilty...you'll not hear another peep or negative comment from me.  Everyone is entitled to his or her own opinion.  All I'd like to see is a little decorum and good taste.  Fun is fun but let's check the side arms and flamethrowers at the door.  We've had flashes of brilliance and we can still make this an enjoyable, classy place to be.  Thank you to all those who make it possible.  Hell, even you, fuzzy!  LOL...just kidding...