I think that making your intentions known to a working girl is infinitely more dignified than lying to a civilian to sleep with her. That also goes in the reverse direction as many women are unspoken prostitutes.

That story is an excellent example of the hypocrisy of our culture.

is the other side of this hobby.  Those of us who are educsted, well-adjusted and choose to partake because we enjoy it.

Then again; who would want an accurate representation of all aspects of this hobby?

Dweller, you obviously failed to understand the intent of the story and the program.  The average age of a girl getting into prostitution is 13....not 18, not 25...13.  These girls are runaways and working the streets to survive and johns are taking advantage of the situation.  

There is a very dark underbelly to the "hobby". Underage runaways, asian and russian girls tricked into working in massage palors and brothels and on and on.  

The vast majority of prostitution is not some single mom trying to make a few bucks or some college girl trying to pay for med school.  

Wake up already.

When I was in High School, I saw a film about the devil weed....marijuana.  One puff and your life was ruined.  Of course, none of us would be involved with children.  How does my meeting a mature independent provider contribute to the disgrace of child prostitution? Decriminalizing prostitution might help curb such abuses.

You are dumber than a cardboard box. Amazing--really.

Exactly.  There is no comparison between a 13-year-old prostitute and a 30-something woman voluntarily partaking in the hobby/business of personal pleasure.  That's why this is called a "hobby" -- because we're not forcing anyone to do anything against their will.  

And a priest is the LAST person I would have tell me not to hang out with 13-year-olds ...

I find it odd that the moderator is allowed to bash and call posters names.

The ladies on this site are all over 18, and most are 25, and up. This "forced into prostitution" crap is not applicable to this site. You've been on some Quixotic crusade that isn't relevent here.

I will...Your VILLAGE just put out an APB for you.. It seems they're missing you.

You two are so afraid of someone taking away your precious hookers and that you will never get laid again, that you fail to face other bad issues within your "hobby".  If you read my post, I said the "dark underbelly" of the hobby.  I made no reference to the providers on this board.  

Sure, there's a dark side to the hobby. It's also possible to hobby responsibly, and to provide responsibly. Let independent providers work with the full protection of the law and you'll do far more to improve the lives of sex workers than any amount of hypocritical posing and punishing of otherwise law abiding citizens exchanging cash for services.

It's disgusting to think of a 13yr old child prostituting, but even worse is:

#1. The person or persons that see this child struggling (ran away/drug addict mom/father molesting them/or abusive household and/or a child of the system in and out of foster care), and instead of showing them the downside of this business and how it can destroy you as a human being and ultimately your life, they dress these kids like adults and teach them what to do, promising them money and a better life just to profit off of them.

#2.  The pedafiles who have children the same age and clearly see that it is a child yet they go ahead and take advantage of their situation, sleep with them for a tiny amount of cash, and in the long run enable them to keep doing it by being a customer.  

At 13, $50 or $100 seems like a lot, but kids have no concept of the value of a dollar.  Men justify their actions by saying "I helped them by giving them $",  but fail to realize the damage they did by asking sexual favors in return, whether they offered it or not.  Its a fucking child!

I was lured into the strip club by my older cousins at 16.  I was a tom-boy, never wore make-up, heels, didn't own a skirt, slouched, never had my nails done and was barely an a-cup. However, being tired of waking up with Moms "man of the month" in my bed every morning, I ran away and had no choice.
My cuz got me a fake ID and gave me a place to stay but charged rent of course.  I started as a cocktail waitress on 13th and Race in CC until I learned to walk like a lady.  I look back at pics and it was obvious I was a kid.  I knew nothing about BWI g sexy because I had not had sex yet (willingly anyway).  I sucked at it and barely made $20 a night in tops because I knew nothing  about drinks or garnishes......LOL....needless to say I got a lesson in dance and learned what a "Red Devil" was, better known as am "Alabama Slammer", and got on stage.  I was getting lap dance requests left and right because of my "innocence", and that is nasty.

I was offered lots to meet guys after work but I refused to ever be a prostitute.  At 19yrs old, I started bachelor parties and watched girls do extras and still I refused to do sex for money.
After the club owner tried to sexually assault me one evening after working 3yrs for him, I crossed the line into this.
I hated myself for a long time and got involved in things I regret but at 23 learned a out the Internet escorting and fell in love with it.  It takes a strong mind not to crumble in this business, and not become a drug addict to ease the guilt you feel along with shame when looking at yourself In the mirror.  

If you are immature and or getting into this for reasons of desperation, this biz will eat you alive.  Luckily I survived my hard times, and provide because I like to and want to.

I can only imagine how a 13 yr old feels after being lead this way, and no real guidance in life or someone who teaches them self worth.  It is disgusting and any man who pays to sleep with a child is a pefafile and deserved to have their dick cut off.

There you go clowns, a respected provider on this board who was lured into this business from a young age.  Yes, I know she didnt become a pros until she was of age, but the process started when she was below age.

I wonder how many more would tell a similar story.

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It's ironic that a catholic organization runs the John school when the catholic church is known for hiding and protecting pedafile priests for centuries.