If a client schedules a 90 minute or 2 hour appt, should he be liable for the 90 min or 2 hour fee if he finishes in just an hour?

I had a guy schedule aa 90 minute appt and said he would possibly do 2hrs, but absolutely wants 90 min.  I get up, drive 45 minutes, we have a great session, multi pop, the whole 9...

We got done early, and not because I rushed him or anything, it was so passionate, we went 2 rounds, and had 30 min left.  Well, he goes and grabs the $$ of the dresser, and takes $$ back, and hands me $300 for the hour.  I was so disgusted by the cheap and petty act, I just left.  I mean, I have to drive 45 min to an hour there, and back in addition to the hour we spent, thats 3 hours of my time, and he takes back the cash, just handing me enough for an hour.  What happened to the good ol'days of true gents, who treated us ladies as human beings?

That is rude and cheap! Not to mention the fact that you may have turned down another appointment counting on the time he booked. I wonder when he goes to a restaurant and only eats half his meal he ordered if he only pays half of his bill? Dont think so.
Its because of guys like this that the first few minutes of an appointment when the donation is left is weird and awkward. We are always leary of some low class idiot taking the donation back or doing something sketchy. We dont want to look like a bitch and snatch up the donation and hide it or anything but geeze some guys dont leave a girl a choice!

First of all, anyone doing that to YOU should be shot!!

Sessions are scheduled (at least with respectable providers) on a time basis. Some providers try to rush the guy out early if he finishes ahead of time, but, again, it's crass and low budget and not quite germane here.

I will admit to having ASKED one time after cumming 20 minutes into a TERRIBLE one hour session with a cut-rate NJ agency if I could pay for the 1/2. The agency said I booked for the hour, so.....and I accepted it.

But to answer the question (sorry for the 'prelim'): It was a contract - I'm sure something not 'court-enforceable', but a contract nonetheless. He agreed to take up a certain 'time of companionship' and by the 'Code of Sophisticated Hobbyists' he was obligated for at least the 90 minute rate. At least that's how I look at it, and I think I'm in the majority here.

It's what separates the men from the 'CraigsListers'. Personally, especially with providers such as yourself, I greatly enjoy the 'winding down' time and never liked rushing out the door under any circumstances.

Sorry to hear this, Jade. But have faith, there are some of us traditionalists still out there!!
(And you still owe me a game of Twister!!)

Just a plain ole cheap son of a bitch. The kind of guy that you might warn your provider friends about.

He pay for what he scheduled, bottom line. I always book a 2 hour. Sometimes I finish in 1.5 hours and have to go, I never ask for the 1/2 hour back. Other times it takes the whole 2 hours.

You know how I feel. The truth is while we call ourselves "hobbyists" this is not a hobby for the provider. Sounds to me like he penalized you for having been able to do in an hr what he thought was going to take 90 min.  He is obiviously not used to anyone  of your caliber. He is probably used to sme of the CL girls where as soon as you pop they are gone and who count the money in front of you and out it away.Feel bad this happened. See you soon.

He's paying for your time-companionship. He was wrong for giving you less than your 90 minute fee.

My question is why didn't you take your donation and put it away when you arrived? Trust no one when it comes to money.

I would let other providers know about his underhand tactics. They would then have to decide whether to see him or not.

Hey Jade - He is a jerk. You pay for what you book. More importantly he is an idiot for wanting to leave you when he still had a half hour to go - I am sure I could think of something to do. Anyway just remember we are not all like that!

Hell whats wrong with just hanging out or paying for the time he contracted.

agreed with previous comments...dick move fore sure on his part!! shows lack of class and consideration for the other person to do such a thing.

That's one of the highest compliments a gentleman can pay me when he writes a review. However, I always feel it's difficult for that atmosphere to exist when that little envelope or pile of bills appears soon after arrival. I never ask for the donation except when I work in London or Ireland. There, it's expected.

We're damned if we do ask and we can be shorted or ripped off if we don't. It's a Catch 22.

The good news is that gentlemen don't have to be asked. The envelope quietly appears and we quietly set it aside. One of the things I ask every gentleman to do soon after arrival is to wash his hands before we start putting fingers in warm places. Hygiene reasons are a big part of that. Giving me the time to discreetly check the donation is the other. Then, I put it away.

WE have to set the standards in each an every encounter in such a way that YOU will forget it's a service and that we can feel fully and freely comfortable offering it. It's a two way street and thankfully, most "friends" that visit are gentlemen.

Thanks for the  post Jade. I'm so sorry it happened to you but it was a good reminder of what can happen when we meet the clod and/or the cheapskate.

Hugs and Best Wishes for Happier Endings,
Anneke

There is more to you than just sex... he is paying for your time.. I would black ball him and let the other girls know his name..

I am sorry this happened to you.  Just sent you a PM.

S

Coming from a retired  indy now a mgr. I would def say that he still be required for the 90 minute session as that is what he booked and you drove for!!!! That is absolutely ridiculous it is not your fault that he did not want to stay the rest of his time.  It is not your fault that he finished himself earlier.... Needs to lern how to pace himself.... Should def pay for what he books for ....


this is kind of like buying a car well i only drove it 9 months when I took out a 72 months lease so I shouldnt have to pay for the full thing..... Bull crap!!!!

I hate swindlers and hagglers!!! Jade please pm me his info


Kisses
Ashlie

That would be like going to a 4 star restaurant and ordering a 4 course dinner package then only partaking in 2 courses because your eyes are bigger than your stomach then expecting to pay for only 2.Then only to dispute the fact to the maitre d.....Being over 21 does not make one a gentleman...

I feel the need to appologize, even though I would never even think of such an act.  
Hell, I would be more likley to offer you a massage for the extra time just to have you hang a little longer.

What an asshole.  A cheap ass scumbag!!