I am not brand new to the biz, but just broke off from agency & went independent.
I have run into some weirdoes, but this one became psychotic!!!!
I am writing this 2 warn the other girls.
This man seemed very sincere on the phone, made an appt. with me.
He rode up to where we were supposed to meet.
He must have called me 1000 times and I broke off another appt. to be with this client.
So, he's acting crazy in the car (wasn't getting a good feeling) because he didn't take down directions like he was supposed to & blamed me 4 getting lost. Obviously, no GPS system. Hence, the bazillion phone calls. UGH!!
Anyhow, the deal was since I literally live around the corner, the policy is the client checks in the room, tells me the room number & off I go.
Well, he became extremely hostile with me when he arrived..."f*** this, f*** that, f*** you”, over the phone. “Why aren't you f***ing here?"
I said, "You are supposed to let me know when you get there & what room you’re in. Weren’t u listening? I'll be there in 5 mins." Then he starts calling me every name in the book & from every single number he had harassing me, threatening me and I became extremely frightened. This dude is a pure PSYCHO!! He still kept calling & threatening me all night. WTF?
He then starts acting bipolar & calls me back & said, without an apology, “can u still c me?”  I actually tried to calm him down (he was with another guy in the car who drove him that he hated because he didn't have a ride.) & I then asked him, "Are you going to get violent when I get over there?" This is the kicker...He responds, "I don't know yet."
Well, that made everything null & void.
If there are any ladies who need any info on this jack***, email me.
Guys are welcomed, too.

Be glad you didn't see the psycho.

The guy sounds like a nut case. What is going on lately. Seems like there is is a constant full moon.....

The reviews are  very tame and lame, and the database is vastly inferior to boot. They don't have NEARLY as many reviews as TER.  Most of the members are losers that have been banned from TER. But,ask me how I really feel.  






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TY Chris & Fuzzy
How do I do the blacklist thing?
I'm new 2 the sites & want 2 alert the other girls, so I thought here is best.
I don't know what to do.
I physically feel sick after what happened.
I thought breaking off on my own was going 2 b good.
I was excited, now I'm just scared.
It's ironic that u said "full moon" & "psycho" (LOL) cuz that's what me & my roomate were saying the same exact thing last night.
She heard everything that was going on & said she was going to block the doorway if i dared to walk out 2 meet up with him. She was in fear 4 my safety. She's pretty aloof with what I do, so 4 her 2 get involved said something.
I called the agency i used 2 work for & told them if they ever heard of him. Sure enough, EVERYBODY in Philly had banned him over 10 years ago. They told me he was an old customer who went BAD long ago.
I told them about him & they weren't shocked @ all. They just said keep away & block his number.
I wasn't working then, so i knew nothing of this guy's background, history or patterns.
Can some1 please help me?
Now, he's on the computer starting s*** with the girls here.
I think I need a vacation after what happened but I just posted the ad. Kinda confused right now.
I saw the ad on the other board & shot back the factual story.
I wonder if he got banned here & that's why he's over there. Hmmm...
I'm going 2 see about those sites you listed after this, then take a nap or a drink. *smiles* I'm off work today from my hum-drum 9 to 5'er job, anyway.

Thanks again !!!!
Lana




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Guys  listed on these boards range from the cheap, to the criminal, to the psycho, to the ripoff, to the disease ridden, to the dirty/stinky, to guys with skidmarks etc. You'll recognize a few names on these sites I'm sure.


http://www.dangerzone411.com/

http://www.nationalblacklist.com/

HI I HAVE AN APPOINTMENT WITH A JACK TONIGHT. MY CLIENT IS 52. YOUR GUY WAS WHAT AGE?

My "Norman Bates" guy's age was 58 or 59. Born in 1949 2 b exact. (And yes, he still lives w/ his mother, too. Eerie & uncanny, yet funny, unless I saw a figure in the window while pulling up to the house. I got lucky that it was a hotel he or his mother didn't own, if u know what I mean. LOL)
His initials r J.P.
Please b careful, sosad1.
Some ppl. r acting very strange lately from what I heard.
I don't know y.
The drama will eventually stop when the production's over for these dramatic thespians.
U would think they want 2 b on TMZ, they way they behave.
I'm gonna put them all in the car w/ Britney as their punishment.


I hope I'm able 2 count on u girls as references & vice versa over here, eventho I'm not able 2 work a whole lot.

Omg, Fuzzy made me laff about the "skidmarks"  remark. *heeheehee*
ROTFLMAO
TY so much! I needed that.
I started laughing so hard I started 2 cry.
I gotta tell that one 2 my girlfriend.

Hey, look on the other board!
They took down that "lying freak's so-called" post!
YAY!
Take that, "Norman"!  

You can personally email me becuz I don't know how 2 private message yet.
Some1's gotta teach me.
Where do I go for pm's?
I'll have 2 look around more when I get a chance.
I don't know what I'm allowed or not allowed 2 put in the message body, yet, either.

Ttyl.

Lana  

TY Fuzzy again & Eric.


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Lana,

I'm very so sorry you had to go through such a stressful experience.

If you don't already, you should have a policy of not seeing someone unless they have a reference from another well-known provider. Maybe it will cut down on your pool of potential clients, but it is for your own safety.  Also, consider joining www.date-check.com.

The other thing is if you have a PM, a little envelope will show up at the top of the page. Click on  it. To send a PM click on mail, and compose. Or you can PM by clicking the little envelope on someone's post, and write to that person. Glad you enjoyed the skidmarks !

I know. I had a blonde moment there.
Sorry, I obviously made a typo becuz I honestly didn't get much sleep @ all last nite.

Speechless @ the pic right now.
Umm...this is a real family photo.
Omg!!!!

Fuzzy, you were right. I went on nationalblacklist.com & recognized some names from the services where I worked at before.
Lo & behold, my schizo was just listed on that site not more than 3 months ago for reneging over 1 years worth of someone's money.
What a deadbeat loser & a thief !!!!
I'm thankful for these sites.
Good night, everybody.
I hope you all have a great weekend and a productive week.
Lana    

Sweetie, please go to the providers boards and get some advise on screeening. There are classic signs that  can guarentee a bad client.

Sorry this happened to you. PM me if you want.