After looking at threads going back to 2007, no one here will be surprised to see this. I was visiting and didn't realize this is her MO.  I researched, read reviews and thought I made a wise decision.  I was screened easily and we set a date 3 days in advance. I touched base day before and morning of and didn't get a response. I shouldn't of wasted 2 hours driving to her incall-left hanging in parking lot after emailing and calls. I did give her more than a day before posting this and no response from her. If you search tifflockheart in the discussion board it goes back years describing this type of behavior. I intially seached on tiffany lockheart and only saw 2013 posts. She has excuses (youth, school, health etc) but things haven't changed in terms of basic courtesy. If she took 15 seconds to cancel I would have been disappointed but never would have posted.

Personally I don't think it is right to post something negative about someone using an alias. Maybe you should have used an alias for her too. She's not perfect but she has a good heart. Life's not always easy for everyone. She's certainly not the only girl to miss an appointment and to be unreachable. Guys do it to them too. I have had it happen to me by more than 1 girl, more than once. Make allowances. Factor it in. Forgive and forget or move on. If you are going to complain/vent, stand tall and don't hide behind an alias. I have certainly had my ass handed to me for posting something someone didn't like...

I think the guy has a valid beef. Understand that stuff happens and life gets in the way, but NCNS is inexcusable. Doesn't matter if you're a provider or a client.  If you're not going to be able to make it you have a responsibility let the other person know.  It takes two seconds and is simple common courtesy.

but this message wasn't intended for you. And I am not answering to you. You have seen her, reviewed her in 2008 and it seems been defending her behavior since 2008 as well.

you ain't the only one. TL is no longer on my To-Do list, when she was once near the top of my Philly playlist.

This isn't an excuse, but if she doesn't call you in the morning to confirm your appointment, then you can predict a NCNS.  All this does is save you the aggravation of preparing for and driving to an appointment that isn't going to happen.  It does not ease the basic annoyance of making an appointment and then getting shut out.

I think when you post, you post for everyone to see and comment on. I still think it's childish of you to criticize her under an alias. No one likes to get stood up but it happens all of the time. If you were able to go back and research me, you should have researched her first. Even with your money, she's not a sure thing. For me, I'm happy she's still around and I hope she's doing well.

For years. You guys still haven't learned?  She's a hot mess and obviously hobbyists will continue to flock to her no matter what. Hit her where it hurts and don't see her anymore. There are plenty of well reviewed, reliable girls and agencies you can spend your money else where. Good luck and maybe have a plan B when scheduling with her

From sitting on your high horse in your white knight armour defending her for 6years? I did research her but who goes back 6 years? Her username changed and I think I saw 3-4 different websites...hard for NSA to follow that electronic trail lol

maybe she's hiding behind an alias.

She's full of excuses and is very unapologetic about all her NCNS bullshit. She keeps doing it because guys keep flocking to her like idiots. There are better ladies with better deals who actually give a shit to spend your money on.

I second this fact.  I have had two scheduled appoinments with Tiff since her recent return, and was previously ncns'ed before her last hiatus.  For both recent appointments she called me the morning of - one I actually had to cancel after her morning confirmation - about 1 hr before (shit happens).  She txtedme much later in the say to let me know she understood, no hard feelings etc.... I always take the, it's "just a hobby" approach and found you get more cooze with honey.  NCNS, forgive the pun, suck but it's just a hobby.  IMHO when speaking of Tiff on this topic, the juice is worth the squeeze.  Can't wait to see her again!

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man you guys weren't over exaggerating. I literally booked weeks and weeks in advance since I'll be visiting the area. I tried to confirm with her a few days ago and she just never responded. She just posted up an ad, I don't think I will see her even if she does get back to me.

I will not go into my scheduling but I have been fairly spot on since I returned in August. Not to say I have not made a few errors, but I have tried my best to be present, on time, and provide a nice hosting environment. If you do wish to speak with me privately, you may do so through email, phone, or PM.  
I don't care for the "flocks" of men, I care about those that desire an appointment with me and are respectful. I will not rehash the past, but the few times I have had to either cancel or was not able to get into contact with the other party was due to my both of my parent's recent illnesses. Other than that, I am awake at 6 am and ready to go :

You are absolutely correct that it is a common courtesy- and I cannot dispute that in the slightest. I did send you an email today because obviously yes, I know who you are. I was out of the business for quite some time, but there is a history of NCNS. I don't take for granted the clients that I have nor do I ever wish to disappoint them. Since I have started back in August, I have been labeled as difficult to get in touch with and I have admittedly had a few NCNS that I wish I could retract for the main reason that it does make me feel sad that I let the person down. As for being difficult to get in touch with, I try my best to keep up with emails and calls- but they all seem to come in a storm- and even if I could magically answer 2,000 emails in a month, there is no plausible way for me to see each and every person. I do apologize sincerely and I hope that the email I sent to you will at the very least, not make you feel so angry in general. I am not a "hot mess", as one may call me and I do care about not only my reputation, but in this community as a whole. And I am sorry that I both disappointed you and even furthermore, did not respond which is the inexcusable part.  

Kind of harsh, wouldn't you say. What has she ever done to you. Did she stand you up? Should she now crawl up and die. Maybe beig with you isn't even worth the money or the time...

...pretty laid back actually.  I think the general tone of the overall thread is angry because some guys seem to be ticked off at you. There is a lot of history here with you in Philly that I wasn't aware of at the time of my post and it is percolating out.

Longevity- yes you are correct as my career path is nursing. You're vulgarity is just plain obnoxious and bitter. Enjoy life

Firstly, who are YOU to tell ME what to go and do? You can... I think my title answers that. No, not in a fiasco and not in need of quick money. I plan on sticking around for a long time, so get used to it. I cannot begin to tell you how many times I have been no-showed, cancel ten minutes before an appt time that was desired by another, showed up messed up on drugs in an extremely upscale CC Locale- hence why I have nipped that in the tush.  Did I enjoy how it felt? Of course not. So yes, I understand the concept of give respect, earn respect. However, you're vulgar attempt to have me leave the scene and make bombastic assumptions just exhibits you're desire for control- not to mention the need to add "VP" to your alias.  
I was sincere in my words and placed thought & emotion behind them. I have a clue of what you were trying to emote, however the majority of it was plain jibberish.

Please do not pull innocent parties into this- as the thread began because of a valid dispute that you had with me. However, anything with the words Tiffany Lockheart that involve drama will draw a lot of feedback and attention. 90 percent of my clients do NOT post reviews. This does not stem back 6 plus years, as I became one man's sugar baby for a while after "retiring" and then after that, I returned to nursing school and was engaged in Lancaster. Yet somehow the posts still continued about me for years that I was "sighted" and the stalking... well that never stopped. It is not a pleasurable experience.  
Thank you for accepting my apology- that is very kind of you, however, nobody else needs to be drawn into this.  
And if by the logic of someone NCNS or things even worse (in the past), this community would be missing quite a few of its members. I understand why you were so upset, as I would be too. However, you're stirring a pot that has long since boiled over and than some. I will continue as I am- and I will become more assertive so that these needless actions (or inaction in this case) does not arise again. If I am not well, I do cancel my appointments as I do not wish to get others sick. And in this case- well, I spoke with a reputable provider on how to deal with the situation at that point in time. If I was so eager for money, I wouldn't limit my availability- as I like to enjoy what I do Thank you, in all the chaos I have gained much more knowledge.

Thank you for the advice as it is very much appreciated Very much understood

I knew a guy who hides behind an alias wouldn't stand up and take the blame for his own actions. Thanks for trying to blame me. If only I knew who you were perhaps we could get together. Would love to hear all about you and your opinions in person. Probably a little man living ion your mom's basement.

The unanimous responses to Phildunphy's thread placed the blame on Tiffany and not you. She has explained her situation. She has apologized. The participants have moved on. The issue is resolved. You are not part of the equation. Don't feel so defensive. It is time for play0814 to move on

Are u guys rookies....in this Hobby?  NCNS is when you have a confirmed appointment..... If you call the morning of your date....and get no answer it is UNCONFIRMED.....I have said this a hundred times I don't get into my car without taking to the provider  that day.  

Thanks for saying it a lot better than I did. I seem to haveincurred thewrath of many but that's all I wassaying. If yu are going o take a shot at someone, be ma enoughto use yur ow username. If yu are surprised andmadaboutbein stoodup (especially under those circumstances), your in the wrong hobby. I don't fee these girl owe me anything. Glad they are there - happy to spend time with them.

This is best response, christohertrac. That's exactly how I look at things. Personally, I desire to see more ladies then I budget for the hobby. If it doesn't work out w/ one, well I got those ducket$$ now for the next one. I'm no shill or white knight, but seems like past clients of Ms Lockheart are just waiting for a NCNS in order to pile on her (not at all saying it was the original posters intention). I'll admit, years ago Tiffany didn't show one time w/me and I just chalked it up to money saved. I will say though I was lucky enough to see her twice before that for which I was thankful she provided a real fun time. I'm highly considering reaching out to see her again especially since she confirmed a certain menu item is still on the menu from another board. Have fun, everyone - like hawk said this is supposed to be an enjoyable hobby...