A provider outed me to a young teenage family member. The provider showed her all of the saved text & emails that we have sent to each other. I can not figure out why she would do this to me? I know she worked with LE in the past to set up some of her clients in exchange she was not arrested This happen in a town called either Blue Ball or Blue Bird, PA. But she can't be trying to set me up, I have been retired from the hobby for 5-6 years now. In fact she was the last provider I was with. We were friends ever since then. I co-sign leases at 2 different places so she would have a place to live. I paid her rent when she couldn't, which was frequent, I paid her cell phone bill when she couldn't, which was frequent. I paid to have her car repaired, paid to have her moved and asked for nothing! There was no "trade" or "favors", we were just friends. I distant myself from her when her drug addiction got out of control. Still, I helped ge t her into rehab, got a counselor for her. What I want to know is, should I inform the hobbyists who she is and that she might out them? Any advise would be appreciated

How would she connect you to your "young teenage family member?"

How in the world did she find a family member of yours? I'm kind of new to hobby but I can't see myself taking a provider home to meet the family.

As I said we were friends for a long time. I met her son and see met a few of my family. I still don't understand why she would do this? We are not fighting or arguing about anything. The only thing that changed was I stopped paying her bills and distant myself from her because of the drugs. I email her about once a week to see how she is doing and if she is ok.

Yes, please out this girl....especially since she's set us up with LE before. Let alone the family thing.

It sounds like a joker, attention-getter, someone who used no judgment whatsoever.
Blue Ball, PA? What? Really? Where's that? You don't even know where this incident took place.
There are red flags all over the place in your story.
A teenage girl whom she met we don't know, signing '2' leases with a known drug addict, not expecting 'anything' in return for all these 'favors' that has been going on before 2004 or 2005, a provider working with LE, yet not getting in any trouble herself from LE (LOL), etc., etc., etc.
Why are you telling us and not going to her?
Are you trying to start trouble for everyone?
I'm sorry, but I never take a side, nor take anyone's word at face value.
This entire thing is very suspect!

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For all we know, it might be YOU that is angry at her and now trying to out her and get her in trouble. Why are you still emailing someone that 'supposedly' did this to you? IMHO, you are trying to get a provider in trouble. If you distanced yourself, then in truth, you really didn't do that AT ALL and just lied to us because you are still contacting her. Please keep this between you and her. I see if she was truthfully working with the police years ago, now you tell everyone in 2010.
If she was setting guys up all these years as you say, then YOU were in on it.
How come no one has been busted and not come forward, if she was working with the police?
Give us a break!
You sound spurned by this woman.

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gee i dont see anything that has changed EXCEPT I DONT PAY HER BILLS ANYMORE  DUH  you idiot  you are friends with a rat  that sells out people   to   help herself and than you ask us  gee what should i do  .   you deserve  what you get  grow a backbone   and warn anyone that will listen to stay clear of her .

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I can't make it any more clear. Please let it stay between you and whoever you are having issues with. We don't know the other side of the story to give an intelligible and fair answer. People come on these boards for unscrupulous reasons. If you have a problem with someone in particular with no proof, but just your word, then take it up and work it out with them, not us. We are not counselors.
There's his side, her side & somewhere in the middle lies the truth. This is much drama.

I agree 100% with Cullster.  Nothing else needs to be said.......

It's a he said/she said - except she hasn't spoken up. That's where it stays.

Accusations of working with LE are serious and, in this case, would appear to be spurious. If they were true, nice job keeping quiet about it for all this time.

Man up and deal with the drama you helped to create. The only thing certain here is that there is a lot more to this story.

To the hobby.
Frankly, your post reeks of the sour grapes of a civie relationship gone bad.  

Either this guy is the stupidest mofo or itis simply an April fools prank.....