but if a guy's fantasy is to get you off why is that "gross?" Deep down he knows you're acting, but you're paid to indulge that fantasy. Quite frankly I hope I never run across you by accident; maybe you're an amazing actress but it's hard to imagine someone with your level of disdain for your clients being able to fully hide it. I've been with a couple that couldn't or wouldn't hide their contempt and it sucks. I have clients in my line of work, and while I don't like them all equally I appreciate their business. What you do is a lot more personal and I get that there will be clients you find nauseating but it sounds like you kind of hate us all...unless we happen to be hot. And way to do your fellow providers a solid by implying that you are just voicing what they're all thinking. Congrats on one of the most unpleasant rants I've read in awhile, and enjoy those megabucks while you still have the earning power. Mine will last until I'm too old to move or I get Alzheimer's, how about yours?

Most do not know deep down it's an act. I would bet anything you wouldn't find one client of mine that ever thought I was faking. If they did they would not keep coming back. I've had a lot of real ones too. Only I know.

You don't understand my post. I mentioned a sliver (a small fraction) of my clients fit into what I described. I don't feel that way about the majority of my clients, even the ugly ones. They are still sweet. They are still respectful. The reason for my post was the OP's idea that we somehow want to be their gf. I was explaining why that is not it at all. It's plain stupid to think any hooker would ask those questions with the intent of wanting to really be with them.

I actually hope we do meet. I'll privately die of laughter at the great review you will leave for me.

Bottom line. You are paying me to be there. I wouldn't be there without the money. It's really that simple. Hot or not.

I never said I spoke for all providers. You guys are really good at assumptions. You know what they say about assume.

Luckily at the rate I'm going there won't be a need to work until I can't move or Alzheimer's. I do appreciate your concern.

I would guess that her rant is generated due to her disdain of being a hooker.  And realizing that the future here is not a very profitable one.

I'd venture to say that gals like her don't have two nickels to rub together...and realize that no matter how many "butt ugly" dudes they see she can't accumulate anything.

It's a vicious circle.  Unfortunately too many gals here are stuck in it.

However there are those that get in, do their thing, and move on to the next chapter.  I hope that this gal has some way to exit here.  But based on her disdain, she's tried a few times and ends up here again and again.

Cause that's how I mean it.  

You know that feeling when a girl is soooooo over the top into you that you start to question life itself?  

It's kinda like that. You're just like "oooo. Whoa. Easy now. It's a fantasy but let's not play."

Exactly!

but that's an entirely different ball game, and there's a lot of territory between that level of delusion and "masturbating into" a provider, as OP so artfully put it. And let me be clear, "I just want to please you" is not my deal, far from it. But I do enjoy my time a lot more if it feels mutual, and why can't it be? If both parties keep it real, much like a good party a fun time should be had by all and then it's back to real life. But I digress, my only point, really, was that OP is a bit hateful and frankly reeks of bitterness, despite protestations to the contrary.

else I might not have understood. Funny you didn't mention that in your OP, which even you must see reads like blanket derision toward all your clients. And I am glad you see such a rosy future for yourself while also living that expensive lifestyle, I'm sure it will all pan out exactly as you foresee.

Well, now that I've spelled it out for you a second time hopefully you can grasp the concept.

I don't recall saying I spent a dime of my own money on my lavish lifestyle. Look, I know it must suck for you guys to face the fact that we mostly don't like some of you. The best part is when you go to see your ATF and whine about my post, and she assures you that you're not in that category and she really does value you when in reality she's rolling her eyes at your lady PMS moment when you walk out the door. The guys like you that do nothing productive on this board other than slam providers and bitch and moan about everything. Waaaaaaaa!

Well, once again, obsessive whack job, you 'guessed' wrong. The only vicious circle on here is you and your endless posting and woman bashing on every single thread ever created. If I wanted to prove anything to you, sure, I could, but that would mean I actually care what you think, and I don't. Just in case you were wondering. Is it really that obvious why asshats such as yourself have no choice other than to pay for it? Who in their right mind would want to be around you for free?

Zero, I'll wager.

but if you look at my past posts I'll wager you'll see that in the three years I've been here this is the first time I've "gone negative" on a provider. It takes quite a lot to get my ass up, so congratulations. It seems you despise your clients, without whom you'd be starving or waiting tables. If you had anything else to turn to I doubt you'd be venting so acidly. The providers I know that have a plan or an exit strategy are much more sanguine about the negative aspects of what they do, and don't bother with such vitriolic rants, even under an alias.

And seriously, talk to my ATF about this thread, are you high? I'll have forgotten it in a hour, much less by the time I see her again.

If you don't have one when you start, you get one quick. And it's not really our problem if you can't laugh at someone shitting in the bed. Sorry, it's funny, lol! We tried to play nice, and no one wanted it. So here we are with some honesty instead

We decide if we are being degraded or if this is going to make a great story later. I can see being a little put off because you get to go home to your nice little family at the end of the day and pretend deleting the texts is all there is. But this is our world. And we are going to laugh about it along the way when we can. Some are butt ass ugly, some are sexy as hell. It shouldn't offend you to hear that the hobby reflects real life so closely.  

And, frankly, I'll believe it's worth clutching your chest over when there is this same reaction when a man says it. As far as I'm concerned, until then it's blanketly accepted as ok to bash johns, as long as it's done to bash a lady. And in that case I really don't care if people pretend it's mean when we crack a joke. It's not. We just aren't your brand of asshole when you're not paying us

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