I saw a post asking what makes an ATF. I will relay mine.  Out of respect for her (and my) privacy, I will leave names out.  However, I post this with the hopes both hobbyists and providers take note.  Please note that I and the provider are both in our early-mid 40's.  We are both done with bs and drama.

I see my ATF perhaps 2x a month.  I provide the courtesy of ample notice (usually the day before).  I confirm the morning of.  I will call her when I am on the way and then when I am about 5 mins away as she will have the garage door of her condo open so I can park my car.  I park, head upstairs where she meets me with my favorite cocktail, dressed in gorgeous lingerie.  We DFK passionately and begin to undo my tie.  I sit, finish my drink, DFK more and then head to the bedroom.  I briefly step away to freshen up and then meet her on the bed where the magic happens.  

The next hr is amazing.  It usually ends with a warm washcloth and a little pillow talk. We get dressed, one more DFK, I grab a bottle of water and I am on the way.  I leave the donation (which we discussed only once quite a while ago) on the table on my way out.  She knows and I know I'll be back soon.

That is how time with an ATF should be.  

Thank you for sharing!



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