Most of us have probably been there at least once...

Live, learn, move on...

Don't be too hard on yourself...

I think of all of the fun I could have had with the money I gave to strippers.  No worries, its only money and you are not in jail right now so life is good.  move on.

I've had 2 one on ones that worked out really well. Both ended up in the 5-600 range for basically an overnight. I had one that sucked but if you got her number is there a huge down side to calling her and asking if you liked her.....
         

a strip club!  Why?

First things first DO NOT make the problem worse by doing a "one on one" (whatever the fuck that is).  But I can guarantee you it will not be in your favor.

Take the $225/$300/$400 and spend it on a well reviewed Provider.  Why would you even think about "one on one" with a stripper?  You might get laid or you might get fucked (not in the good way).  With a well reviewed Provider you DON'T LOSE.

Second, I will not go into details because I have to go to sleep.  As strange as it might sound Providers are WAY MORE sensible, sane, trustworthy, honest, (insert your adjective here) than strippers.  A Provider will deal with you straight up.  Strippers try to pass themselves off as something they are not.  (mind you I am not judging what someone does for a living).

But I will leave you with this thought.  

When you enter a strip club the goal of the stripper is to get as much $$$ as they can for the time they have to work.  A Provider will give you a great service for a set fee.  NO bullshit, no excuses.

Play safe!

Okay I like going to the strip clubs to watch the titties all in my face as well as other things, and I might even get a lap dance once in awhile, but I guess my ? is why do most men go for the strip clubs, rather the "tease" knowing 9 times out of 10 they only aren't going to get any, but also leave with less money than they started with, when they could have the real guaranteed thing with a provider?? I guess I don't get it...

Personally I get 'very' turned on by erotic dancing. I've asked a few providers that I know used to be dancers to dance for me and give a lap dance before we started. That was awesome and I wish I had the balls to ask all my providers to do that for me. I would visit strip clubs if I knew I wouldnt be busted by family driving by and seeing my car or whatever.

The strip club game is entirely different,  but it can be done with great results if done properly.  It's all about finding the right girl before you drop your $225.  PM me if you want details.

In a session I get it with a provider, but at a strip club just seems like it would be a tease *shrugs shoulders*

Oddly enough, going to strip clubs is how I found it.

I spend significantly more time and $ on "strippers" than "escorts".  There have been numerous threads on numerous boards about comparing the two.  Obviously, it's not about the label but about the specific girl.  If you can find a connection with one, and you meet each others needs, then who cares.  I like escorts because its a sure thing with a well reviewed lady, less drama and expectations are very clear in most cases.  I like strippers because I do like a little of the chase.  I also like to be able to preview and pick a girl rather than hope a picture is accurate and reviews match my taste.  The places I go, there is very little uncertainty.  I've developed enough goodwill at my favorite clubs that there's no LE fear on either side and I rarely leave without company.  Prices are more variable than with escorts.  They tend to start a little bit higher because its rare to get a girl out without some dance/drink/etc spending beforehand.  Then, I tend to spend $ on some traditional date stuff, like dinner/drinks that I dont with an escort.  But, the price per visit is usually much less for much longer

and out $250+when get a private lap dance and everything else for that.i haven't been in a strip club since i started hobbying(i would go with a provider though!)

Duly noted. I guess everyone has their tastes

I can honestly say I love them for the tease. I would go with a client. I think that would be HOT considering I am BI....

Went with a friend wearing only a dress and tights, and got my dressed stripped off by a stripper right on stage, and then she bit me haha.  Thank god I have my rabies shots.....

it was in the company of the escort I was spending the evening with.  Usually at my date's request.  Going on my own has little if any appeal.

i would have given you a streap teas and a lot more....

Serena x

Hey Molly,

Why was your friend only wearing a dress and tights?