I was just wondering if anyone in this area has actually ever met this woman? I kind of ask the question in jest because through my experience (s) and even through observing a few times when I did not inquire it seems like it is next to impossible to actually get together with this woman.

I have had two, maybe 3 (can't remember if I was actually booked with her the third time but did contact her trying to and she bailed out of town early, I might have had a time set can't remember) separate times over the past several years when she was in town where I was set and wanting to see her but she has ended up having to cancel. Once it was because she said she wasn't feeling well, actually I remember not being too peeved about that because the weather was kind of bad that evening. She also has been very apologetic on each occasion about not being able to get together and has been courteous enough to call, once I actually spoke with her for like 15 minutes, she spoke more than I, again very apologetic and nice. Still very frustrating.

On top of the two or three cancellation I have had I have also noticed her pull her ads and leave when she had originally said she would be her longer.  

She posted an ad on eros today saying she would be here today and tomorrow and it was changed in the past hour or so and it says she won't be here now for another two weeks.

I rarely keep trying past one or two attempts or inquiries, but she has the look I like and is very rare to see around here. Even with that said I think I am done trying to get together, just ends up being a frustrating experience and this whole hobby is supposed to be fun.

Some of these girls I am sure get so many inquiries it is hard to keep up, but some I suspect are just flaky and they just don't seem to care, which is surprising because I can only imagine how much money some of these women leave on the table. I mean I personally over the years can say I have been willing to spend thousands more than I have but have not because of problems just meeting the girl, not just cancellations but also providers who are next to impossible to get in touch with, schedules that are restricted, etc. One would think it would be easier given the arrangement, you would think money talks, but it doesn't seem to for what ever reason.  

I have taken to labeling girls like Bobie as figments of my imagination, as not real. Again in jest to an extent, all those reviews obviously means she is real, but to me, and I suspect others, she might as well be a fantasy. Not to say she is the only one, through my experience she is the rule and not the exception.  

Just curious to see if anyone on TER has had the same trouble with this woman. Her reviews are solid and it seems like if you can get together with her she is a real good time, getting together with her is the issue it seems.

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I didn't want to be that harsh because she has on each occasion called to cancel and not just blown me off without notice, which has happened to me with other women I have booked with, and I am sure most of us over our time in this have as well. Not saying you are wrong to say that, I just didn't want to come off as an a-hole, I was just curious to see if anyone else has tried more than once and been cancelled on by BD.

I usually don't try more than once or twice to contact a provider and once is usually the limit as far as an actual appointment that is booked being cancelled. I think one reason so many providers flake out is because you have so many hobbyists who will try a half dozen times to get together and still be willing to give the same woman a shot again.

Again though, she has a pretty slim build with massive tits, a look I really like, so I have tried a few more times than I would have with most others. Have to admit I was going to try tonight but the trip was pushed back. Don't think I will try 2 weeks from now, why try to get into something that you are almost banking on being called off...lol

Book an O/N and cancel at the last minute. Or I will. Thin with huge tits? Hmmm......young also? Lol. Or an old bag? I don't know your tastes.

If I was not selective I would participate in this hobby a hell of a lot more than I do. Thin with huge tits and young does not come around these parts too often, rarely seen except for the myriad of fake pic ads on backpage and unreviewed provider ads on eros (mostly all fake as well I assume) so two out of three with good reviews is acceptable.

Remember I am not in Cbus or Cleveland, I am in the hobby purgatory known as Cincy/Dayton, lol, not a glut of "young" "thin" and "huge tits" here unless I am missing something, I'm not by the way.

Would not have tried contacting her more than once if that if I was in Florida or Vegas, NY or LA, but here it is just not happening, that perfect 10 look that is. Not saying she is a perfect 10, I don't know what are you gonna do??

Anyway I will pass on the whole revenge booking idea, don't care enough to make the effort, the way I see it if my money is not enough to make these girls care then the heck with it all...lol...I don't take it personally.

no shit, hookers can be flaky, but just don't bother with the ones that are vs. starting a thread and telling the entire board. she obviously has not flaked on the guys giving her 10s.

I am not trying to hurt her reputation nor is a simple post like this going to do so. I posted the inquiry because, well this is a discussion forum and people ask questions, relay experiances ,etc. Honestly I think your out of line to react that way, I'll leave it at that.

For someone who supposedly cares about what hobbyists have to say about providers, the use of the term "hookers" by you would probably be seen as more out of line than anything I said

Apparently the GD board was slow and "it" needed someones ass to stick his nose up. I couldn't give two shits if you destroy a rep bye telling the truth. Now if you were lying........different story

you said her full escort name and went into detals in public, so don't act like you did not have an agenda. calling them hookers does not mean shit. they are hookers and the cool ones don't cry about that term. so by all means bash away, but don't contradict yourself in the same fucking post and say, you're not trying to start anything or hurt anyone's rep. did you think guys would line up to see said provider because of this thread?

Thats not cool. Things happen and I cant control everything. I do have two personal issues severe going on.  and I have gone but with my situations going on Which I will not discuss with you or apologise again One I will say has to do with  
deadly illness of a family member. who yes is passing away.  On trips I have shorten maybe one or 2 cant remember. Was do to the fact i was sitting in a hotel room occuring expenses with no work prior to leaving early!! I am not a flake at all!! but have serious issues in my private life. maybe if you were a understanding Gentlemen you would have contacted me. prior Instead of playing this bullshit ter game.
As well as I will mention had a severe bad experience with one of your so called back channel Gentlemen that has scared me for life. (not Physically) No im not saying you would have done that same thing to me. But It comes out  
and some times I have to put things on hold.  I do appreciate your lack of concern and the big understanding Its a shame you had to put me as a flake. Another thing is I do have a select group of fine Gentlemen that book most of my time on multi hr sessions!!  

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I quite honestly meant no offense. I also mentioned a few notable things in the post that were meant to soften the post so not to be overly critical or to make anyone think you were not worth contacting.

I just honestly wondered if I was the only one, I have just always thought the process of seeing ladies in this way would be pretty easy. Early on I dealt with one agency and they were always very easy to schedule with and things went smooth, Since they left the scene I have had numerous instances of difficulty getting together with ladies, seems like it should be easier.

I wish you luck with the personal matters and I apologize if you took offense. You are certainly not the only woman who sometimes has things come up. Again you will note that I tried to deflect the negative comments by others, just wanted to see if there were any other local accounts. As is there have been none so maybe it is just me. It was just an honest inquiry.

I have and probably will continue to just not even bother with any of it, going out to bars and clubs is a hell of a lot more entertaining that dealing with this hobby. True you might not manage to take a hottie home, but it is not like you will end up missing out on much if you took the hobby route,lol, not with all the cancellations, difficulty booking,etc.

Your right.

Next time I have such an inquiry about a specific lady I will hope that other hobbyists will be able to guess who I am referring to when I inquire. I will just explain the situation and then ask "has anyone else had this problem with X provider". Hopefully they will not bash me for having no idea who or what I am talking about.

Better yet I will just probably not post at all, that should keep the rabid attack dogs like yourself from raging.

Your delirious to suggest I have an agenda. And I am certain she will do just fine as far as clients, if there is anything certain with this hobby it is most hobbyists seem willing to take any and all abuse and still say, "yes ma'am may I have another". Before you accuse me of doing so no I am not saying what happened to me was abuse, just trying to make a point. As she said she has plenty of clients, who book multiple hours, so why would they care what I had to say?

I have apologized to a direct response by the gal in question, so I will leave it at that. Hopefully you will to.