Guys. Do you tend to have an atf or a couple of atfs or do you seek out someone new. Personally. I have both-a "go-to" plus I like to seek new adventures

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I rarely repeat because I'm usually un-impressed but when I AM impressed I don't stray.

I have repeated due to convenience and admiration.
Two of my favs were from Ohio lol. One is now a crackhead and the other retired.

The only other repeat I married.

Anyone free for the next 40 years? Lol

Have only found one provider (in a city I travel to regularly) that I clicked with so well that I tried to repeat. Unfortunately she was a last minute no show for our second appointment. (Kinda weird since she texted me 5 min before the appointment saying she was almost there.)

I'd like to find a local regular but haven't matched up yet on location, age range, looks, weight, price and skill set. Then again, I could be too picky and/or not sufficiently motivated

I can't say I started out that way, but I've ended up that way.

Some go for adventure, some like the thrill of a new person, some don't want to get attached. There's lots of variety as to what people want. Personally, I found someone with whom I connected with, both on a provider/client basis and a friendship basis. There's a comfort in knowing who I am dealing with, what to expect, and being with someone who knows me.

But that's just me.

hmmmm, did you find out wat happened to her? Did she have car problems?  
Hmmm, sorry that happened to you

I texted and emailed a couple of times to see if everything was OK (accident? traffic ticket?) but never heard back. Since then she's been getting great reviews and advertising on TER. While she was momentarily my ATF, my assumption is that for some reason she doesn't want to see me -or- she's totally flakey. An well...