Tells us what turns you on......and what we can do as hobbyists  to make the  time with you  better......aka..lig

ht your fire.

I would think that cleanliness and courtesy would top the list.

Hmmm I like to DFK a lot (make sure your breath is fresh please), I LOVE to BBBJ and few on here can attest to that. I like DATY, with you flicking your tongue and using fingers..that is just a few I will name on here, but trust me I have LOTS more

Ally

Turn ons : a man who is gentle and not overly aggressive,  someone who acknowledges me as a woman and just as a "provider" , a man who is thoughtful and prepared - bottle of wine always hits the spot, and lastly some nice daty - consistent and not overly sloppy or wet for me

One more thing ! It turns me on when a man is vocal while I am pleasing him, I am a woman who loves feedback

Turn offs : bad attitude (arent we here to have fun?) and guys who negotiate make the time super awkward !

It's always surprising to me that some of you guys give a shit what we're into. Pleasantly surprising, that is.

Having said that, I think you'll likely get a different response from each girl you ask. For me personally, I like a dominant guy who can be aggressive without being degrading. I'm a little bit of a masochist, so a little roughness is good with me too. I also LOVE a vocal guy. Feedback is hot. Basically if a guy can be dominant AND sensual, I melt.

Then a good rub down with some unscented  oil......... Get's me nice and loose.....

I usually do what I think is a nice massage later. I really don't know what the heck I am doing but do it with all I got.  I usually book for 2 or more hours.  I never bring alcohol (2 omvi's) 20 years ago but lesson learned.  I rarely bring a gift but tip most of the time.  I like to think I am a fun and easy going person, chat for a few and have fun.  I would like nothing more each and every time for the lady to have had a great time with me.  That is my goal, I just enjoy making the ladies comfortable and enjoy the time.

You sound like a very nice gentlemen, and I don't like the session to be rushed either. In fact my first sessions I prefer at least 90 minutes, so there is no rush. I am glad there are some guys out there such as yourself.

Ally

..."Now bend over and take it!"

that we give a shit. Of course we do. Most of us are gentlemen who want a mutually beneficial experience. I'm not going to go home and cry if the lady doesn't get off, but I'm a simple creature, and if the experience is pleasurable for both of us then that just makes the date even better. Not to mention the fact I'm much more likely to book a second appointment if we both had fun. Now there are limits of course, I don't mind getting a little rough but I once met a woman who really wanted to me to beat the shit out of her. Never hit a woman in my life and I just wasn't comfortable doing what she was asking for. I'll slap the shit out of your ass cheeks but I wouldn't slap her in the face like she requested. Well, I did slap her in the face but it wasn't with my hand!! LOL

Amen.

Hahaha I like a little face-slapping if it fits the mood (or if I'm drunk).

Might want to get a second box of wine , just in case!! LOL